How do I get a Divorce if my wife is in the army?

Question

My wife joined the Army over a year ago. She says that in her mind she has fallen out of love with me, but in her heart she still wants me and that she loves me. She is over whelmed with school and is blaming me for everything. She wants to seperate but I feel that I should let her go. I dont want to let her go I fight and fight and fight to keep us togahter and I feel she is getting further and further away. This is my last thing I want to do, She wants to reenlist after her four years. I suport my wife 110% and she doesnt understand that eather. What am I to do besides divorce. Is there someone I can talk to?

Please if you can help or have advice please email me.
No rude comments please, I am need of help.
Thank you.

Answer 1

Don't try to keep someone who don't wants to be there, it will only make things worse. her being in the Army she probably see a lot of guys and it's overwhelmed her. I'm sure your a nice guy, it's not you, she has the problems, find someone who will give you all her attention, being in the Army is hard I know, my husband has been in for 20 years and it is hard. If you or she wants a divorce all you have to do is go to JAG and they will help. But you have to understand once you tell people in her unit things will get worse, never put the Army in your personal business. Good luck, but again I say, don't try to hold someone who don't want to be there.

Answer 2

Talk to her Army chaplain and any friends she has that may be able to tell you what's going on in her head. Being in the armed services changes a lot of people. You grow up real fast. Try your hardest to find out her thoughts, but this may not end like you want.

Answer 3

Let her take the divorce option if she wants. Keep being there for her until then. Shes probably going through a phase.