what to do??????????????
2007-03-30 01:24:20 · 18 answers · asked by prettygirl 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
That's hard to believe. Kids are "going out" in Elementary school. Even the unattractive ones.
2007-03-30 01:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by Baw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush it! There is nothing wrong with that and you should be proud of it!! Just keep being you and doing what you're doing and when it's right for you it will happen but don't feel like you have to just because you're 18 =)
2007-03-30 01:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Incognito 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl.. You still got a lot of time.. A lot of time. Just enjoy yourself and go out with your friends to the mall and stuff and try and get phone numbers.
2007-03-30 01:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like that then 19 came around and it was all hands on deck! You'll find someone when the times right, just be patient.
2007-03-30 01:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by purplebuggy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 18 when i went on a date... i didn't let him kiss me, because i found out he was sleeping with a lot of the girls on campus...and basically i wanted to teach him a lesson..
2007-03-30 01:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, get on Singles & Dating, this is a question for them,,,second...don't worry about it, it's overrated!!! Take your time, you'll find someone someday...
2007-03-30 01:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a nun...
NO seriously just be patient your time for a BF will come
& when its time for the kiss you will know what to do
2007-03-30 01:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by muffett1 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go to the singles and dating category
2007-03-30 01:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by up4anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18? to young for me. find a nice boy, take your time and make it special.
2007-03-30 01:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by paul 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's a GOOD thing really....and NOTHING to feel bad about
because of what 'society' or hollywood, etc. think that your life
should be about....Don't rush into something just because you
think you're a certain age or whatever and it's "expected" and
"everyone else" is doing this, that, or the other thing...
You have your whole future ahead of you....and just think you could be 18 with 2 or little kids already and be on your own, trying to support them and barely survive....even if the kids were not planned for,.,.and while it's better than abortion, why
would you even want to go down that road and live your life with regret for the future you wanted and threw away...just so
you could "belong" or whatever....
You don't need to have a boyfriend JUST to have a boyfriend, if you know what I mean...and then end up messing up your life
with having sex and getting pregnant when you're not ready to
settle down...and what if the boy ends up leaving you because
he's not ready to settle down either...and he just wanted to go to bed with someone....and he surely doesn't want to end up with any kids yet and so you would be stuck with it all...and no
matter what the feminists, etc, say, abortion IS a big deal and
not just for the baby...but for the girl/woman going through it...
Just because it's "safe" and "legal" doesn't mean it's RIGHT!!
You could end up messing up your whole life because of the guilt and regret that would eat away at you inside....The baby is NOT just a blob of tissue or "biological matter" that you just
get rid of and INSIDE you would KNOW it....but the feminists, et al, want women to think of abortion as just another means of birth control....a quickie solution to a "problem", so they can
go right back to their lifestyle of sexual freedom and equality, just like guys who don't have to "worry" about getting pregnant
or telling their parents....and society acts like it's no big deal to
just sleep around and whatever....but it is......and you really need to think about BEST for you....and not what your friends
think....REAL friends would never want you to mess up your whole life just to be "accepted" or whatever....Would you ever
take drugs just because someone puts you down for saying that you don't want to and they pressure you into it...I hope not.
One thing really CAN and often does lead to another and be-fore you know it, it's too late to turn back....It's done and you'll have to live with the consequences....and you don't want that.
ANYONE can just follow the crowd and do whatever without a second thought...but it takes a SPECIAL person to be able to
stand on their own and hold on to their own values in life.....
If other people put you down for that, they are not worth being friends with or even having anything to do with.....
Just because someone jumps off a bridge doesn't mean you have to do the same thing....THINK ABOUT YOUR OWN LIFE
instead of what's "popular" and "acceptable" in today's world.
Are you still in high school or have you graduated already?
Do you have any plans for college or a career....??
That's what you should be thinking about...really....and don't worry about being "different" or anything......
One day, you will be so grateful that you DID wait and do the RIGHT thing.....FOR YOU!!!!!
There is somebody SPECIAL out there just for you and he is going to be so grateful and proud to be with a young lady who didn't just throw herself away with the first boy that came along. REAL guys don't want to be with a girl that sleeps around....and so what if you wait until you're 21 or so....THAT IS NOT OLD!!!!!
You could even WAIT longer than that....and SO WHAT if the world thinks that's "odd" or whatever...It's NOT!!!!! The world
(society/culture is ODD and totally MESSED UP!!! The world
doesn't care if you mess up your life by sleeping with the first boy that gets you to fall for him!!! They won't be there for
you!! Just imagine what your life would be like if you were to get pregnant when you weren't ready.....not just once,...but twice or even more.....Is that what you REALLY want out of your life....Just so you could "hold on" to a boy who says that he will leave you for someone else unless you go to bed with him....
There was a song in the early sixties called, WILL YOU STILL LOVE ME TOMORROW....by the Shirelles....that talks about that same situation.....
Please don't let ANYONE intimidate you or make you feel
"guilty" so that you will do what they want....Such people do NOT care about you at all!!!!
God bless you....and I hope you will talk with your parents about what you REALLY want out of life...instead of what other
kids your age think is "right" for you......when it's NOT!!!!
2007-03-30 02:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by angelique1225 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋