Hi
I am a striate forward person but from few years I am losing my temperament day by day due to unhealthy sexual relationship with my wife. She is not showing interest in sex and neither she try to understand this situation. Many times I have lost my temper my little angel. Now I don’t want live with her because I don’t want face this problem to further. But when I think about my child then I feel shamed upon myself. She is strong sentimental wife, she always give me threat to suicide herself or left to home. Many time she misbehaved with me such as beating me etc. what I should do for save my marriage and social life? How can I handled this situation properly
Please help me
2007-03-29 21:51:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Give maximum importance to your child and also necessary healthy importance and love to your wife. Lots of people, do NOT remain overly obsessed with sex, after the child arrives. So sacrifice some personal pleasures and GAIN great values and happiness, from your precious and happy family.
Read some good books on Philosophy and Spirituality.
2007-03-29 22:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better for children to come from a broken home rather than live in one.
If you can't resolve this with some counseling, Then you might need to move on without the wife.
If she is susidal then you surely don't want your child around her.
Please get some help.
You should have NO Shame. No where is there a law saying a person needs to hang in there in a crazy abusive relationsihp.
You sould get custudy of the child.
2007-03-30 02:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not indicate how old your child is, 1 year or younger could be post partum depression for your wife. with that said, regardless, you need to seek professional guidance. if she does not agree, then seek professional help for you to help you deal with the situation. i hope you have an open supportive family who will be able to help you cope and offer support. whatever the outcome, realize that your child (genetically) might also have issues in the future. take action now on how to be prepared for the future. good luck to you and God Bless.
2007-04-02 18:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You absolutely must talk to a professional therapist about this. Honesty is always the key, but honesty without moderation is dangerous and hurtful. Talk to a professional - they know how to deal with this!
2007-03-29 22:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by Steve C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋