Can you please help me?So I had this friend named Felicia, and she's been a copy, and fake ever since forever. Well her boyfriend's name is Jacob, and he's very nice and deserves more than her. Felicia has put me and my best friend through a lot, and acts like a **** 24/7. Jacob and I became best friends, and she decided that she couldn't have that. Her and Jacob have had problems since forever. So when I became friend with him again after she told me to stay away, she decided to date him again. So anyways, Jacob and I started hanging out, and he put me on his top and heroes before her, and she always yelled at him for it. When my best friend planned a suprise b-day party for me, Felicia told me about it. WHO DOES THAT? And so Jacob before told me that he loved me. Not like, but loves me more than her, and wanted to date me, and he was mad about what she did. So he told me that he was going to break up with her. He didn't. Instead he went over her house that day.
2007-03-29 18:03:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I later found out that he infact believed her when she lied that she didn't tell me at all. So I stopped talking to her, and she made him too.On saturday I told him that I didn't want to talk to him because he didn't stick up for me,ect. She's had him whipped.Whipped-does everything he's told.He has to wait for her,stay with her,and everything else imaginable.
I hate how she's doing this and I know that it's his decision but it gets me so mad. I mean my b-day is in one week, and I wanted to hang out with him, but we're not talking and he seems to not care.
And it's hard when he disses me for her, and then tells people that he's sad that we don't talk.
I'm so completely upset that it's making me sick.I can't sleep, eat or anything.
I've tried talking to him, but if I do it again,then it's going to look bad.
I just can't get over how she has everybody wrapped around her finger when she's so fake and there's nothing real about her.She's not pretty,and she doesn't have a personality!
2007-03-29 18:04:17 · update #1
a.) I said that I don't like him like that at all.
b.) I do have morals which is why I stopped talking to him.
c.)I'm not a tramp.
2007-03-29 18:09:19 · update #2
I don't like him like that people!
And I've told her that.
she knows who I like.
2007-03-29 18:13:09 · update #3
You need to get away from her and Jacob. Jacob is happy or he wouldn't be with her.
She makes you unhappy & you do not have to be around her.
2007-03-29 18:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently you and this girl Felicia are anything but friends. Friends would never treat each other that bad. Jacob sounds like a player.
I think you should just stay away from both of them completely and I think all 3 of you need to learn the true meaning of friendship. I'm not trying to be mean, but there is no room for hate in a real friendship.
Good luck.
2007-04-06 12:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so forget about her and forget about him he aboviously doesn't care about you that much if he really loved you more than he loved her he would have believed you instead of her so yea and expose her show every one some how she is a fake. all is fair in love and war. in this case your love is friend love but hey you don't have to do anything you could let go and be the bigger person and just cut her off when she comes crawling back to you which mostly every time something bad happens to that person cuz of karma she won't have a safety net to fall back on like she will think she will think it is all water under the bridge
2007-04-06 17:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by door knob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your friend's boyfriend why are you tripping because he want talk to you?
1st--- friends don't date each other's men---
2nd-- it sounds like you are jealous--
3rd---if he already has a girlfriend why r u wanting to hang out with him
4th---he is her man--she should have him whipped--and he should not talk to you behind his girlfriend's back--
5th---maybe Jacob does love you--but as a friend
6th---all relationships have problems and it is ok to work these problems out
7th---you should stay our of the picture until this couple are through with their drama--
FIND YOUR OWN MAN
2007-04-06 19:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mind stupid ppl. It just sounds like the whole situation is a lost cause. as hard as it may be forget about him becouse why be friends with someone who treats you like that. Find some othere friend and then he'll realize your strong enough to not even get sucked into the situation...Best of luck..
2007-04-07 00:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by MeLisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants the both of you at the same time, i think you should forget about the both of them and just go on with your life and make it for the better. If he really wants to be your friend and talk to you he will come to you, just wait i wouldnt go to him
2007-03-30 01:09:41 · answer #6 · answered by key to your answer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not control her behavior, only your own. She thinks you are trying to steal her boyfriend. You need to take a break from both of them for awhile. Don't dwell on this, get busy with other people.
2007-03-30 01:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore her she is just jealous because Jacob likes you more then he does Felicia.shes acting like a ***** because she is jealous because you are pretty smart and may have a great personalty. and tell him he is a total jerk and needs to find out who he likes and stay with them not go from one person to the next.
2007-03-30 01:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by god's child 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just annoy her !
u re too precious to get hurt by this things, so go get another friend....
gotta be carefull with friendship, if he loves u alots then u both just go along, dont care what others said...its a free world, baby ! but asked him, which one is best u or her.
2007-03-30 01:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by vio 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there a lot of men who is wearing a levis, for sure not hard for you to find someone better than your friend's bf. even friends or by blood, we could share stuffs but not lovers...it will be a big disaster!
2007-04-06 18:14:15 · answer #10 · answered by babybossy07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋