I was at a party. This guy asked me if I wanted to dance with him & I did.After this we would have just gone back to our friends but no. I said im going to get a drink,when I was going to say nice meeting you bye he said I will come with you.I said sure, bc I didnt want to be rude. After I got a drink I thought he would go but no. I said I need some air thinking he would want to stay inside. No he said he would come outside with me. I still did not want to say no go away. We eneded up talking for over an hour & he kissed me. He was a nice guy & we exchanged numbers but after we talked on the phone I realized I didnt like him. He was nice in a friend way nothing more. I was trying to get away from him in the first place.It has been about 2 months. He txts and calls and says he wants to see me sometime. Either I say I cannot talk or I am busy . I feel bad but Im still scared to tell him i don't like him but we should be just friends. I can't drag this on any longer. What should I say?
2007-03-29 15:13:35 · 5 answers · asked by Lindsey G 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Tell him in a nice way that you don't feel the same way about him. lt will crush him but there is no better way. He still persists when you are obviously avoiding him so you have no option but be honest about it.
lt would be more difficult if you let it go on and on.
Good luck.
2007-03-29 15:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is hard for you to just say it. Then maybe you should tell a little lie...that might be easier for you...such as you are back with your old boyfriend...but you would like to be friends..now that should do it. If he should call soon after if you can have a male friend answer the phone. I think your scared to just say I like you but only as a friend..you may feel you led him on...or you just do not want be the one to hurt his feelings. But if you are scared for another reason...like he is a sicko or something you need to let others know this! There are some real sick people...if that is it call the police...and report him. I hope I helped.
Ciao
2007-03-30 00:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by bodacious baby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you scared, first of all?
If you don't like him like that, just tell him. Don't put yourself in a position where you're doing things for someone just so you don't hurt their feelings. It's not worth it!
2007-03-29 22:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by tamara_cyan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. If you're "too scared" now, how scared will you be in 2 more months? Be honest.
2007-03-29 22:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by 4kids2pay4 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a long question
2007-03-29 22:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by indieassassin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋