hey i like these gurl alot but im inberresd to ask her out or even talking to her wut if she says no
2007-03-29 14:33:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
just ask her
2007-03-29 14:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat dude. I just starting talking to her like every other friend I have. Broke the ice a bit. If she's in a class with ya or something like that, bring that up. Look at it this way, if she says no, ya get that rejection out of the way, it's not the end of the world. I know that's cheesy. But the more practice ya have asking girls out, the easier it'll become. Some will say yes, some will say no. That's life.
2007-03-29 21:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by chilltownexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she likes to do for fun. If it's something you like also, say "We should do that sometime." If she agrees, set up the time. If you don't like the thing she likes, say "Um, ok what else do you like to do for fun?" and so on. Approach it like she is lucky that you are asking her. If at first she asks you why you're drilling, just tell her you are trying to ask her out. The two biggest turn offs are smelling bad, and having no confidence. If she's rude and blows you off, remember that there are millions of fish in the sea. Don't let her get u nervous. I've known all sorts of really hot girls that never get asked out because the guys are too afraid of them. They were all my ex-girlfriends and my present wife. If you really need to, ask some girl out that you're not super interested in just for a one night date to get you practiced, and to get you used to talking to a girl. It really makes a big difference. Good luck.
2007-03-29 21:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by Lancaid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not an easy task I know. Especially if your the type of guy who's afraid of rejection. But tell you one thing, it's a part of growing up. Not everybody appreciates you or will agree with you. Still you have to try that regret it for not trying at all. Be courageous and confident. If you have no dirty schemes so why do you have to feel shy or afraid. Just tell her nicely if you could or possibly go out together on a date. It's that simple. :)
Good luck dude.
Satay safe! :)
2007-03-29 21:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by waldenwarlock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hey girl i'm new in town & don't know my way around this place so will you take a walk with me, then while walking get to know her better after the walk ask 4 her #. then at mid night call her and say that you can't sleep bcoz i'm thinking about you so can we go out on a date later today if she seems interested the ask her out during your date.
2007-03-30 05:23:43 · answer #5 · answered by @Mula_Hahaha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first...stop being inberr....embarrassed. I like when a guy gets to know me first and then works his way into asking me out (or that's what I used to like, I'm with boyfriend now). Get to know her then you should be able to feel whether she will say yes or no. IF she says no then F that *****...she missed out on a good thing, right!
My manager always says that women are like buses...don't worry, there will be another one in 10 minutes! What a jerk huh, but he is kind of right. If this one doesn't work out because she said no, there will be another one that will spark your interest in the near future.
2007-03-29 21:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by half sam, half amazing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are in middle school, write her a note. High School, ask her out in person or on the phone. Post high school then just get some balls. Chicks love being asked out wether they like you or not, if you are ugly or not. It is flattering so regardless of her answer you will make her smile. Just do it. You only live once right?
2007-03-29 21:42:37 · answer #7 · answered by insurance specialist 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say hi to her, get to know her, if she doesn't sound interested or the friendly type, then leave her alone-she may not be interested in you or just really shy. (find out if she's married first by looking at her left hand for that ring.) ask her; "who's your boyfriend?-I know you got one!"-that way she doesn't think you're trying to pick her up or asking her out too soon,...if she says no, then she's possibily available for a date unless she's seeing someone already, but take it slow, don't try to rush things. ask her what her hobbies are favorite places to go on her free time, etc.-anyways, keep talking to her & you may get luck.
2007-03-29 21:57:24 · answer #8 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says no then jus keep your cool and say maybe some other time then.... ask her to like a movie or sumtin... and like talk to ehr first.... if u havent talked to her yet dont ask her out because she'll think your a creep... If u do talk go in thinking that she would say no to prepare yourself (this also helps if she does say yes you can be super happy ) YEYEYYEHAHAH HAH HHAHSAH HASHDHASHDA
GOOD LUCK MAN!!!!!!!!!! I used to have the same problem but it worked out.... Its ppl like u and me that make the world go round
2007-03-29 21:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by linkin_brandon973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce yourself and then make the asking part of the conversation. The answer is always no until you ask, so ask. And don't listen to these mean goobers, I used to be a really bad speller.
2007-03-29 21:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make friends wit her first den u make ur move.tada!!!!:D
OR
if u cant wait dat long just ask her and if she says no be like ..ok dennnnnn. lol just take a risk wuts the most that could happen if she says yes then thats gud n if she says no just move on.
2007-03-29 21:40:03 · answer #11 · answered by dona a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋