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Question

Do you ever hate your spouse?

Answer 1

my wife and i have been married for thirty years, and over the years we both have hated things about each other,but we worked them out. nobody is perfect,and we all can do hatefull things. but if you love your spouse you learn to take the good with the bad. don,t let problems drag on. talk to each other and cut the problems out before they destroy your marrage.there is always a way to work the things you hate about each other,but it takes determination by both parties. it is worth it in the end. good luck. Mr. C

Answer 2

No, I never hate my husband, at times I may hate the way he thinks, or hate the things he says or does. But never hate him. I do hate my ex husband, he was a piece of work. If your husband is abusing you or acts like he could care less about you or cheating on you, that would be the only reasons, I would think, that someone would hate their spouse.

Answer 3

OMG. I say Hell Yeah! I've been married 9 years and together 15 long agonizing years. To date, I think I hate him! He is rude, farts in public, acts out like a kid and people stare, eats like a pig, I could go on. I refuse to go out to dinner with him anymore. I sometimes go to family functions alone and I give an excuse why he isn't there with me. He is just too embrassing. I have talked about this with him and all I get is "I will not grow up." Well! I didn't marry nor do I want to be married to a child or even a child at heart.

Answer 4

I think ther are time in EVERYONES marrage when your spouse really gets on your nerves!!! Just think about it you see each other every day and when you need space they are there. It's alot of work being married but I think its definatly worth it. Your opposite sexes so of coarse you aren't going to like every thing the same. I can't say I truely hated him before but definatly got on my nerves!! (exspecially when they are wrong and sware they are right) Try talking about you problems . If he does want to just let a couple days go by and try again. I feel very sorry for you both if you truely hate eachother. I know for me and my husband the best thing that really helps our marrage is the fact that we go to church together and both believe in Jesus. If you want a really strong marrage seek him and ask for his help. Every marrage has its ups and downs but with god on your side you can't go wrong!!!

Answer 5

No. Hate is a strong word. There have been times when I have been angry with him, but it fades. I am to the point now where I realize I go through phases of dislike. I just know that it will pass. I know not to act on these feelings. 90% of the time I am madly in love with him.

Answer 6

No. But there are times when I get irritated with him, but that's just part of marriage. I know I do and say things that irritate him. "Hate" is a word that I reserve especially for my ex-husband. Hmm, on second thought, I don't even hate my ex, because I would have to care, which I don't, in order to hate him.

Answer 7

Yes and no, I never truly hate him but sometimes I am so mad I feel like I hate him.

Answer 8

no. You can be angry or upseat with them, but if you find yourself truly hating them, it is time to get a divorce. A relationship where hate is involved is not good for either person, and even worse for a kid if they are involved.

Answer 9

Only temporarily -- and really, it's just an idea that I hate. If you ever really hate, you'd better be gone. (Be careful with your use of that word. Marriage isn't for kids.)

Answer 10

Yes. When someone said hate is akin to love they didn't know what they were talking about!