A couple months ago i was What you call a "Nerd".(straight A student) constantly doing homework, reading, studying, fitting everything in with sports and flute lessons and hanging out with friends. everything was going really good. Now its like why bother? i cant get motivated for school i hate homework i havent picked up a book in about 2 months and i feel like letting it all go. Wut can i do. i cant deal with getting c's and d's on my report card.
2007-03-29 12:33:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
When I was a teenager that's exactly what happened to me when I started smoking weed. I don't know what the case is with you, but just try to get back on track.
2007-03-29 12:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by the Boss 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aye, I don't know about all these "hoighty toighty" answers but my common sense and general life experiance tells me--you are burnt out. Just goof off for a lil while, take a rest,vent. That is what it sounds like you need, just a break. Let your mind have a rest then, after some kind of mental rest, you'll probably feel better.Take It One Day At A Time.
2007-03-29 19:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jerry_S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have realized you are not your intellect. Or Maybe you are searching for reality and truth not this illusion. Which means you are actually intelligent. We are not this body, IE; Race, nationality, religion, mind, intellect, senses, job,etc. WE are eternal spirit souls, part and parcel of the Supreme Soul, also known as Krishna, Allah, Jehovah, Vishnu, etc. We are in the material world called Maya (illusion) which is temporary and full of misery. Only one fourth of the souls come here (the less intelligent ones that's me) The rest of the souls are enjoying pleasure pastimes with the Supreme Lord and His Eternal Consort. They are all in unlimited bliss and reality. If you are interested in attaining this go to harekrishnatemple.c Read Bhagavad Gita As it is BY Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada. Tells the purpose and meaning of life and what is real intelligence. I was never interested in school but I am doing well in all ways. Hope this helps.
2007-03-29 19:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to everybody I think, don't worry. At some point or other, we just grow sick of the "system".
Thankfully in my case I was able to get myself through university. However, I dropped out of my Master's course. I was just unable to get enough motivation to continue, plus of course the coursework I felt was really pointless.
You might need some time. Take a short break or breather. Then remotivate yourself. It's important to find your drive again, but for now, just sit back for awhile and take things easy. You might have been without a holiday for too long, who knows?
Best of luck getting focused again!
2007-03-29 19:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by july_exodus 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may be depressed. Are there some other things going on in your life that may be influencing your mood/motivation? You may want talk to someone, like a school counselor to get some perspective on what's going on with you. Good luck.
2007-03-29 19:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are considered a nerd by classmates, then they can be cruel and condescending. you should talk to a counselor, psychologist or psychiatrist. i would consider the last two because of their confidentiality.
remember this one thing, it is your life, everything you do is for you. be who you are and to heck with anyone that tells you what to do as a detriment to your mental health. you are your own person and you are the one that has to live with you forever.
2007-03-29 20:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like what is happening to me. i'm just starting not to care. but, just think:summer is going to be here son and then we can slack off as much as we want!
(and yeah, i'm not lying. i never failed a test or anything . not my past grades have been: 75, 80 70, 43, 94, 87. yeah. i don't know...)
2007-03-29 19:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every area has a community mental health clinic. I suggest talking to someone.
2007-03-29 19:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋