my dad cheated on my mom with a lady he works with. now my parents are gettin a divorce i am really made at the women that my dad cheated on my mom with. i n where the chick lives and i want to go egg her house. should i egg her house or should i not?
2007-03-29 12:26:03 · 11 answers · asked by artie garcia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey there, I know this is difficult. It was my moms best friend, I used to want to punch her lites out, but no...you know you should not and I can tell you it would only feel good for a second until you realize that she will clean it up and move on with her life. Believe it or not, some of the best times in my life were during that time with my friends. I had good friends that would not get me into trouble either. I was in sports and band, I spent time going to friends houses, out to eat and that was the only thing that made me feel better. I still was there for my mom, but I needed my time too. I hope that you will not get yourself into trouble or get involved with illegal extra curricular activities. If you let this get the best of you and let it adversely effect your life, you are no better than the actions of your father and this woman. It is hard when you are young, but learn from this and be a better person. Talking to a counselor is good to relieve tension, but maybe start writing your emotions on paper like write your dad or this lady, even if they never see it, it can make you feel better. Go hug your mom and I hope you make it through.
2007-03-30 13:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Chrys23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is just a natural human if you will feeling you are getting to "egg" your dads lovers home but your dad was a BIG part of this if he didnt want or have intentions on doing it he wouldnt have done it so its not all her fault answer to questions dont egg her home
you may feel like it when you get that feeling through an egg towards your dad... =)
2007-03-29 19:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, don't egg her house. It is not all her fault, your dad was the one with the responsibility not to cheat.
I would suggest you go to therapy though. You will have a lot of feelings to sort out and it's good even just talking about them.
Good luck. :)
2007-03-29 19:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Fluffy Pants 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not. Your dad is as much at fault as this woman is. I know that you are angry but try to support your mom right now, she is the one who needs you.
2007-03-29 19:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I would of done the same thing but first think about OK it isn't only the lady's fault it is your dads also.
2007-03-29 19:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by Snow white 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you are feeling soo angry and hurt right now, but it does take TWO to tango... this woman and your'e dad were BOTH there.
Dont egg her house, instead go and hug your mum, she's hurting right now... Be strong.
2007-03-29 19:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by smileyone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your anger is real, but, hon, it takes two to cheat.... be angry at your dad too, not just her... and no, don't egg anyone. go talk with a counselor at school, or some other adult who has their head on straight... you'll be fine.
2007-03-29 19:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by April 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, just don't get caught. I'd egg the womans house too and I'm a mom. ;-)
2007-03-29 19:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by dancing11freak 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's not your business. Leave her alone. Besides, it wasn't ALL your dad's girlfriend's fault.
2007-03-29 19:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be egging your dad's house too.
2007-03-29 19:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋