There are these two guys that I like sooooo much, and both like me. One I've liked for one and a half years; we'll call him Bob. The other, I've been going out with for four weeks; we'll call him Greg. When I'm with Bob I know that's exactly where I want to be, but when I'm with Greg I'm happy, but all i can think about is bob. When their both with me, I can't look away from bob even when greg is holding my hand on the other side of me. I don't know what to do because i had broken up with greg because i liked bob so much but i didn't want to hurt him and we got back together yesterday. i'm so confused. i don't know what to do help please!!!
2007-03-29 12:01:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're obviously still in love with Bob.
Follow your heart.
You should tell Greg the truth and that you need a break to think things over.
Since both like you, then go with Bob. Greg, if he truly liked you, he'd understand.
2007-03-29 12:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you would rather be with Bob rather than Greg. You will hurt Greg worse by leading him on when you feel the way you do about Bob. Make a list of good and bad points of each man as well as a list of what you like and don't like, analyze your feelings for them and which one you can really see a future with. One or the other may get hurt but isn't it better to fair to both of them and to yourself?
2007-03-29 16:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back out with Greg because he's hurt. That's called mercy dating.
And how do you know if Bob likes you the way you like him?
Don't come between friends. If you can't have one, then don't have either.
2007-03-29 12:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart.. and here it seems as though you want to be with Bob.. do get back with greg just to make him happy.. in the end it is all about your happiness.. you will hurt greg more when you are with him thinking about someone else..
2007-03-29 12:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears to me that BOB is the one that has your heart plus you have known him longer. I would tell Greg to hit the road and have monogamous relationship with BOB. Really it appears you already know the answer so why your asking is strange but my bet is on BOB.
God Bless and Good Luck.
2007-03-29 12:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like u wanna plz everyone but urself. b tru to ure feelings for bob and tell greg the truth. its obvious who u like more-bob.and even tho it may hurt greg that u like bob u have to be honest w/ him. i say go w/ bob and break it off w/ greg.
2007-03-29 12:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by kahlia10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it if both of them at same time at the same place they were in trouble and both of them you asked u to save them who would u save greg or bob and who ever u saved that means u care more them than the other.
2007-03-29 12:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by amazingchick123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell greg the truth you want bob but tell him nicely
2007-03-29 12:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should play games with "grags" heart.its not fair to him for u to waste his timelikethis.its kind of ovbious that you like bob better from you description so i suggest you dump greg nicely.and get ur feelings out with bob.
2007-03-29 12:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 22:04:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋