My husband always wants sex and most of the time i want to also but sometimes it gets out of hand, because he wants it so frequently. Because i dont want to as much...is there something wrong with me? i want to please my husband..but how much is to much?
2007-03-29 11:58:29 · 5 answers · asked by acer7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NO you are fine.I am the same way.My husband and I use to always be up in the bed all of time at teast 4 times a day but,once we bought a house a he got a very demanding carear and I about to start back to work,and with two kids,we are just to plain tired as long as you still have sex and love each other there is more to a happy marriage
2007-03-29 12:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by what did you say 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has different levels of interest in sex, and that's totally normal. It's like some people really love chocolate and can eat it every day, and other people are okay with just eating it once in awhile. It doesn't make you a bad person/wife/lover at all... more likely, it's that you have a normal/average interest level, and HE'S oversexed. Guys usually tend to want it more often than they reasonably expect to get it.
Unless your husband is a complete egotist, he'll understand that you might not want it as often as he does, and he'll understand if you say "no, dear" now and then. Tell you husband that you want to please him and continue a healthy sex life throughout your marriage, but that lately it's been a little too much. Offer to scale back to a level that you are happy with - once a day, once a week, whatever feels good and satisfying to you. Or compromise that some times are full intercourse and others are for "romantic interludes" (oral sex, sex games, etc).
Remember, your marriage is about an equal partnership - you didn't sign up to be his sex slave. ;)
2007-03-29 12:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with you or him, you just have different sex drives
2007-03-29 12:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a greater sex drive
2007-03-30 03:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by bre l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is nothing wrong with you men just want it more than women
2007-03-29 12:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋