I have been with my boyfriend for 3years.but I decided to take a brake. He toke it very hard. his friends even called me to tell me that they were worried about him, drinking way to much. We finaly got back together a day before my birthday.but on my birthday i had a girl (x friend) call me he and her had sex 2 days before we got back 2gether. and he tried to stop her from calling cuz he wanted to wait tell after my birthday. hes very upset and disapointed in himself. hes been crying. and he just keeps saying how sorry he is. and the next day i ended up getting the full story out of him and her. and he said he didnt even remember how the condom got on he just remember after a couple of sec of her being on top he pushed her off and went to the bathroom to find a condom on his dick. she even admitted that she put it on. but first she tried to lie and say he toke his own pants off. i am more mad at him.for putting himself in that positon.but should i give a 2nd chance?
2007-03-29 10:10:24 · 2 answers · asked by lynlee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Everyone deserves a second chance. Unless they abuse you. You weren't together when he did this, so it is hard for you to say much about it. You were the one who broke it off. True he should not have been so eager to get in bed with someone else. Now, as far as the story he doesn't remember, he is lying. You are the only one who can decide how you feel and whether you want to take him back.
2007-03-29 16:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're the one who gave him the freedom to mess around when you decided you needed a "break"! I think you're lucky he gave you a second chance.
2007-03-30 14:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋