The college term ends in less than 10 weeks and we started dating about 5 weeks ago, but click so amazingly well together. Both of us are graduating and could be halfway across the country by summer...
I feel like I'm on borrowed time...
How to make the most of these 10 weeks, as if it could be our last? Is it even worth giving my heart out when the harsh reality is that we may be separated for years in 10 weeks? To make matters worse, there are still exams and jobs that take up our time. We can see each other a maximum of about 3 days a week. How to make it the most memorable 10 weeks ever?
Surely it is still possible?
2007-03-29 09:35:43 · 4 answers · asked by jeff85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Heck yeh it is possible. Live each day that you can with her like it really is your last. Make every moment special. Do things exciting and fun that she will always remember. Take lots of pictures to ensure you both will have good memories. Don't argue over petty crap. Play hooky from work a night or two, you are moving anyways, so you don't really need that job, right. Bring her a flower every time you see her or a muffin or a candy bar. Just something to let her know she is special and you are thinking about her. Compliment her always... You only got 10 weeks, have fun with it now, cause if you don't you could possibly regret it after it is up.
2007-03-29 09:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by WOOOOO Whooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a poem everyday, leave text messages telling her you cant wait to be with her, if you arent any good at poems sent lyrics of your/her favorite song, or a song that reminds you of her. Pick her flowers, some guys dont have the money to buy them if you do send some of those too but picked ones mean more. Leave messages on her answering machine that says I just wanted to hear your voice. Color her a picture of you and her together holding hands near a lake. Call her just because you miss her, and ask how her day is going. Cook her a dinner for 2 with candles and roses. Wal-mart has a dozen roses cheap. Make up a song to sing to her. If she feels the same way about you why would you be separated for years love always finds a way, there are jobs etc in both states or cities. If you want to make the next 10 weeks memorable for her then sweetie your in love. Being across country is your choice. It doesnt have to be that way if either of you want it to be.
2007-03-29 09:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say love conquers all. Ask yourself this- is this the kind of person you can see yourself with ten years from now? If the answer is 'yes,' then one or both of you may have to make compromises and sacrifices about things like where to live if you want this to work out long term.
If you can't see that happening, it may be better to break it off now, rather than have another 10 weeks of bliss. It will only make the separation that much more painful if you give yourself longer to get attached. However, just know that the kind of connection you're talking about comes along once, maybe twice in a lifetime, if you're lucky. It might be worth it to pursue this, regardless of the sacrifices that may have to be made.
2007-03-29 09:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend as much time as you can together, and when you're together...get to know each other better, and do some new things that maybe neither of you have done on dates before...I don't mean that in a sexual way either...just new things...whatever keeps it alive...and who knows...maybe it will get stronger and it won't be your last 10 weeks together
2007-03-29 09:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋