I am not circumcized nor do I want to be. Last night during foreplay with gf of 5 years this subject came up. She says that tho she doesnt really mind my extra long skin but wished it would stay retracted back all the time.(to look circumcised) She said most other women wouldn't put up with it and that every woman she knows prefers the man to be circumcized. I never had any other woman in the past mention this. Is she serious. I like mine the way it is and want to keep it that way.
We live in Az. What do most women prefer,,circumcised or skin. Who's right, Her or me?
2007-03-29 08:10:54 · 14 answers · asked by ken s 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Honestly, it's up to the guy. My husband is o'natural and I am fine with it.
2007-03-29 08:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Chewie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depeneds on the woman. Some like it some don't. She is full of **** to say "most" women prefer it. Honestly I have no preference, I like both. You are not in the wrong in wanting to keep it the way it is. If she doesn't like it, and it's that much of a problem, she should either get over it or leave you. It's ridiculous. You can't keep it retracted all the time, so tell her to deal with it.
2007-03-29 08:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by cheeseprincess10 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
okay that guy was RUDE!
all women are different... just like men. You are who you are. remind her that it's very painful to get circumcised as an adult.
"She says that tho she doesnt really mind my extra long skin but wished it would stay retracted back all the time" Apparently she does mind it, if she wishes it would stay retracted all of the time.
This person sounds kind of shallow to me. Maybe you should revaluate your relationship
2007-03-29 08:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by bkirby_78 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Who in their right mind would want a man with LESS of a penis? I mean come on! Your gf has some issues and should be thankful that you are whole, as should you!
Oh and here is some reading to make you even more thankful!
http://www.blackwell-synergy.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1464-410X.2006.06685.x
Enjoy!
Take care,
T
2007-04-01 07:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by calngavinsmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, I preferred circumcised. However, you've been with this girl for 5 years and she's complaining now? I'm on your side. It's your body and if you are okay with it, tell her to deal. Try telling her you wish her *ss was smaller or her boobs were bigger and see how she likes it.
2007-03-29 08:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend isn't circumcised, I never noticed til he told me. We've been together 10 years. SHe should love you for who you are not for how much excess skin you have!!
2007-03-29 08:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think YOU are right. You need to do what YOU want, not what others want. She needs to love you uncondionally, and it doesnt sound like she does. She has a problem with that one thing, obviously.
I, myself prefer circumsized, but thats just me. Some women dont mind it at all. If I were you, Id re think your relationship with this girl. She needs to love all of you....not all but that one thing. Thats just not right. In my opinion, it will continue to cause problems.*
2007-03-29 08:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by Check this out! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your g/f is right. my g/f prefers it. wouldn't be with a man that isn't it looks gross, feels gross and as much as anyone says regular washing will keep it clean. there is no way it will be as clean as a circumcised one as that is exposed 24/7.
it doesn't even hurt so anyone saying that is full of it. got mine cut at 23. they do have anesthetics today and i havent lost any sensitivity. 3 years after it.
2007-03-29 21:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by Matt 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i think its just a personal preference like guys who like big boobs or butts, i havent slept with an uncircumcised man but i dont see that much of a problem with it , if it bothers her that much its her problem not yours
2007-03-29 08:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by sherrie t 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell u the truth? i never heard of my friend complaining about it, i personally cant tell the diff.
2007-03-29 08:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by Tanyah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋