2007-03-29 08:07:21 · 22 answers · asked by Lifeisgood 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I changed my mind, I am not really gay.
2007-03-29 08:20:11 · update #1
You changed your mind????
You must have a revolving door on your closet.
2007-03-29 08:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are gay. So what!? Does a heterosexual come out and say " I'm straight"? For sex that you should be doing in private, why should you have to announce it to the world? If your friends decide to get you blind dates with members of the opposite sex, simply turn them down and say "Thank you". Eventually, they will catch on or suspect, but rarely make a big thing of it.
2007-03-29 21:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Kukla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Some people would advise you to come out and be who you are. I say it's a personal choice and you have to decide if you are ready. Also support helps. If you can find a support network in friends, family or an outside network you will have someone to talk to while navigating coming out. May God Bless you and help you through your journey.
2007-03-29 15:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by girlmecca75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you are gay...only come out when you are ready. Even if it is to one person at a time...I think as gay people we do come out over & over again depending upon what situations we are in. But, if you're really BRAVE...be as open as you possibly can be!
2007-03-29 19:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by maeveangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, whatever helps you get to the bottom of your personal issues. Before youfind comfort in our current cultures acceptance of you desires, you should really resolve to discover how to explain homosexuality in the context of evolution. I mean, really ask the hard questions. You will come up goose egg. The consequences are religious and in the end you will be without excuse.
2007-03-29 15:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by spencer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The short answer is YES, be true to your self and whatnot, but only you can decide when you are ready to. What kind of support system do you have around you? Are you ready for all the negative(if any) responses you will get. It is a very personal decision, and i think you will know when you are ready
2007-03-29 15:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by ryee40007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly believe that being homosexual is OK, you're proud of who you are, you like being gay--then why are you in the closet in the first place?
2007-03-29 15:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eing true to yourself and honest is almost always the best way. Consider the dangers (there are some, such as the slight chance of homophobic violence), but most people who come out have improved lives thereafter. Be proud of who you are and don't let anyone tell you it is wrong.
2007-03-29 15:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by Dan X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES! It will be the most positive thing you can do for yourself, which is be yourself. No more secrets, lies, and sometimes when closeted, promiscuous sex, which could lead to STD's and AIDS. Come out, play, and have fun. You will truly be enlightened.
2007-03-29 18:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by Charles M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You should stay in the closet and stop being gay.
2007-03-29 15:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋