I am with this girl, for about 2 years now. When she knew me, she just broke up with her ex, for sexual reasons. She was with him about 4 years, but they broke up. In fact, I was some kind of "push on the right direction" for her to break up. Now, during these 2 years, we had a full sexual life but only during weekend, cause we live in different places. Before 2 months, and this is the time something changed between us, she met her ex again, for a drink. She told me, she owned him an explanation, and she told him about me. But from that day, I can see some kind of disinterest and coldness between us, even our sexual life seems very ok! She told me she felt bad that day she told him about me, cause he got she betraied him.And I tryied to understand that. But today, happend something that i cant explain. I read an email he send to her, ending with a "Big Kiss!". She didnt respond to him. But today she send him an sms about meeting him, and at the end of the sms, there was an "Kiss!".
2007-03-29 07:10:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I can understand, it could be a kiss of friendship, but, as i called her, on the phone, she lyied at me, telling me that she was on a bar, drinking with her coworkers. As I see, she is very disintested this time, cause we dont chat from 3 days now, knowing that we chat every day for 3-4 hours. Its normal for me to have an sms from her, during the day, but she sends me only one sms at night. I dont know exactly how to explain this situation. Do you think she is cheating me?
2007-03-29 07:15:14 · update #1
I have to say also, that i know, she cant tell me she is with her ex, because when she took to him about 2 months ago, i was angry about that. So i dont think she can tell me anymore when she is with him. I know also that when she was with this guy, she also met her ex-boyfriends, but she didnt betrayied him.
2007-03-29 07:24:51 · update #2
Something else! Maybe interesful for you give an answer. Before 1 month, we had a big conversation, and she was crying at the end of this conversation. she thought i dont believe in her. So it was somekind a conversation of Betray. If she had interes to leave me, she could do that, on that day, knowing that i got so much trouble believing her.
2007-03-29 07:31:13 · update #3
I dont think she is cheating on you. At least not yet. But it sounds like she is about to start. I suggest you talk to her about it and see what she says. Then make a decision.
2007-03-29 07:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK let me say this she hasn't lost interest in you it is just that she.... well have you ever heard the saying the ex can always f@#%. that can be the case. she is cheating on you but you have to think back to the way you met her she had someone and you took her from that right so what made you think that she wasn't going to do the same to you. when she left him whatever happened it wasn't that she was not in love with him any more it was more like she was bored. So the best thing is for you to move on. I know that can be hard but try. I f you aren't ready for that at least try to talk to her and tell her how your feel. But you know you were wrong for checking her sms that is her business not yours. Here goes another saying "don't look for something you don 't want to find". And another for when you talk to her "don't ask questions you don't want the answer to". Good luck ;)
2007-03-29 14:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by mommysgirl78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...sending kisses in the end of messsages isn't a big deal, it's prop. sometimes bec. ex partner used to be close to her and she still likes him so thats why this kiss. What u really should be worried about is .... why is he intetrested in meeting her so much? Maybe he is trying to use her, revange for his loss some time ago? ... i guess I would ask her what is going on, or just called the guy asking about it. I really do not belive in any special rules about love and relationship. When u see something bad, it's bad enough to get worse, so whats the deal if u will just accelerate this stuff. It will save some time.
2007-03-29 14:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by froggy555 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is cheating on you. Dump her and move on, otherwise you will not be a man.
2007-03-29 14:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry buddy, let her go. thats all i can say
2007-03-29 14:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by SAL-NICA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she is. dump her before she dumps you.
2007-03-29 14:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by suzukigirl06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm...yea pretty much a cheater...
2007-03-29 14:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋