I have asked several guys this question and gotten close to the same answers. Why does if your girlfriend cheat on you with a guy is is horrible and you should end it, but if she cheats on you with a girl it is okay? What is so amazingly attractive about that?
2007-03-29 06:42:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
good question - cheating is cheating
and a guy's threesome fantasy will end bad also - that always destroys a relationship - major trust issues arrive after that
2007-03-29 06:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's think about this for a second....remember middle school sex-ed?Boys have a penis,girls have a vagina. If a girl cheats on her boyfriend with a guy,that is pretty bad(because he has a penis,and it can lead to certain problems along the way;look out Maury Povitch!)Now if a girl cheats on her dude with another chick,it isn't so bad because she has a vagina,so nothing can happen,unless said female has a VD. I don't find it attractive at all. Anybody who cheats on the person they are supposed to be with just shows that they really don't care about the person. There is no excuse for cheating of any sort,no matter what the circumstances. That's all there is to it.
2007-03-29 06:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by theterrorofdeath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy some years in the past that i did no longer recognize till 3 months into the courting that he became married! adult males cheat and females cheat. that is quite plenty even for the main section. Years later I unexpectedly met him and by utilising that factor we had the two replaced plenty. He became divorced and that i became nonetheless single. He wanted to bypass to lunch with me so I agreed. After a pair of lunch dates we've been in a communique approximately somebody we the two knew that became cheating on somebody else. So I asked him...What makes a guy desire to cheat? First he reported that girls people cheat too...which I agreed to and then he asked me a question...He pointed to his glass of water and asked me what I observed. I advised him the glass became a million/2 finished. He reported precisely!! while a individual feels that they are actually not getting what they experience they want or want they bypass out finding for a thank you to "top off"...or fullfill a want this is lacking or lacking of their existence. I gave him a humorous look and reported that a miles better thank you to repair that concern would be to talk to the guy who's contained in the courting with you and artwork on the themes particularly of finding for a thank you to "fill the glass"! He agreed yet reported each so often a courting reaches a factor the place communique is particularly long gone. I asked why do no longer you in ordinary terms ruin up or divorce then particularly of staying in a courting this is unfullfilling? He reported each so often the physique is able to go on yet no longer the midsection or innovations...i assume i will see that in the time of a definite way yet i do no longer recognize...appeared like a cop out to me yet I wasn't him! precise now you experience sorry for your self. This has hit you stressful by way of fact for the 1st time somebody has truly harm you particularly of any incorrect way around. it is going to take sometime which you will recover from this...contained in the advise time evaluate each thing you're dealing with and use it as a favorable component. bear in mind this the subsequent time a courting would not artwork out and you're arranged to bail...i think of you will discover it will make you a kinder and gentler individual...
2016-10-01 21:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been sexually monogamous since age 14.. but I dont cheat either everything is known up front .. I would be just as pissed if the she cheated with another girl as another guy... its a factor of betrayal not the sex act to me...
I define cheating as you sneak and lie and all that jazz about it.. Not up front honest sex with someone else (the girls have the same rights as me.. depending on what we both agreed upon)
2007-03-29 06:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is much less offensive & threatening for her to cheat with
another woman but still not OK...
My g/f told me she was Bi before I married her..
I told her that I would accept her bringing other women
over to our house as long as I was part of the affair and
that would include me in the bedroom...
This worked out just fine...
She never cheated on me and brought several lovely women
into our home over the years...
2007-03-29 06:49:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most guys would probably assume that when she cheats with another girl, its just a sexual thing rather than a serious threat as being a relationship thing. And its much easier on our brains knowing that it wasnt another dude that has taken whats ours, when we picture a female doing stuff with our girl it can be a serious turn on.
2007-03-29 06:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by Synaptix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys in this section would not ever have a girlfriend. You need to ask this in the dating section.
2007-03-29 06:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it because a nother women is not a threat to a man. but a man feels another man is a threat ever herd of spem war fair, that,s why some guys don,t see the threat,
2007-03-29 06:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be okay. And I don't think it would be okay to any guy that really had feelings for the girl.
2007-03-29 06:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating and is wrong.
If your girlfriend happens to be bi and that turns you on then it is still cheating - even if your small male brain is clouded.
2007-03-29 06:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by Alan 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋