My Brother just died in a car crash how do I deal with this pain It hurts so bad.
2007-03-29 03:16:51 · 10 answers · asked by playa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sending love your way.. i'm so sorry to hear about your brother's death.
Only God knows the reasons he was taken from you.
Grief is a process, and you are going to miss your brother and feel terrible for a while. Everyone gets through this process in their own way and their own time.
You might be able to find resources on line -- dealing with grief, the grieving process, grief chat, etc. If you find you can't cope, perhaps consider talking with a therapist. many of them specialize in grief counseling.
I wish i could take away your pain. One of the kindest things you can do for yourself is to keep the good memories close to your heart... your brother will always live on inside of you.
many hugs. xo
2007-03-29 03:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 20:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry that this tragedy has happened to you. I'm sure that no words can define the pain you are going through right now. It will take time to get through this, so please be good to yourself and allow your feelings to happen as they will.
If you meant why 'didn't' you spend more time with him, here is why. We all don't spend our lives thinking every day that someone we love is going to die. We are all too busy living. You didn't spend more time with him because you thought you had lots more time and could spread it out. We all do that. We can't foresee the future. Please don't blame yourself for anything.
Cherish the memories that you have had with him and know that he's with you in spirit, and always will be.
2007-03-29 03:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by Plexed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. My condolences.
It's normal for you to feel sad and feel the pain because you loved him dearly.
I believe he felt your love strongly though not expressed strongly.
It's a wake-up call telling you "Life is precious", "Tell your loved ones you love them", "Not to take things for granted"...
As time goes by, day by day, month by month, year by year, the pain will be lessen. But that does not mean you love him lesser. You will still continue to love him & miss him. You'll be able to deal with it over time. It will not be overnight.
Be strong. Because your family also need your support. Do have your own support group as well to keep you going on. Your girlfriend or your buddies or your cousin, etc.
2007-03-29 03:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry- we can't always know what will happen in our lives. it is hard to think about it now; but as you move forward do and be the best you can each and everyday- don't hold back live like you were dying-really enjoy life. carry the memories of your brother with you when you need his love and support he will be there with you- he's in the air that you breathe, the sun on your face and the wind at your back - god bless you - in your time of need pray God is always there for us
2007-03-29 03:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by Ankippia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it one day at a time. You cant get over the loss of a loved one, it just gets easier to deal with in time. Sorry to hear about your loss.
2007-03-29 03:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grievance counselors. Support groups.
2007-03-29 03:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel some guilt but no one expects to lose a loved one suddenly. My sincerest condolences to you. try to remember the good times you did have and know that he misses you also. God Bless
2007-03-29 03:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Celebrate his life. Think of the reasons you loved him. Think of something he left undone that you can finish on his behalf, and go out and do it.
Don't beat yourself over the head with grief over "might have been". You might have spent more time with him, you might have painted your hair green and gone to the moon. You didn't...so work with what you do have, all of your memories of him.
2007-03-29 03:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry for your loss. :(
You should seek out counseling at your school or ask to see a grief counselor.
Good luck!
2007-03-29 03:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋