After the last party we went to. Well we did have a good time.And I was a bit nervious about going after a while most every one had nothing on including my wife. Wich I was fine with that. Well she wants me to be more relaxed Saturday night when we go to this one. She told me to have a few more drinks and let loose. She told me she was talking to her male friends and they told her some people were interested in me.
I think she is hoping that I will be willing to try a bi experence. What do you think?? The couple of people I talked to last party said the frist party was mild because there were a lot of new people there but this one will be a lot more wilder. My wife said she will be willing to get undressed frist and the she will help me She told me she will interduce me to some of the guys. What to do????? Go with it???
2007-03-29 01:45:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well only you can decide that. If you like it you like it if ya dont ya dont. Just dont let your self be forced into something your uncomfortable with. Personally Id be all over it.
2007-03-29 01:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go with the flow of the party but keep true to your self. If you feel uncomfortable say so, if things start going in a direction you don't like - say it. If you are still being coursed, just leave - you say they are your wife's mates so she might want to stay even if you leave, and you might have to leave her there
At the end of the day no-one has the right to make you do anything but until you try things you don't know if you like them or not.
Try to enjoy the party as just a party and let yourself be guided my your heart.
2007-03-29 09:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound interesting (your wife certainly isn't the inhibited type).
As stated by someone else - you'll have to decide what is most comfortable for you (you have to make your wife understand that).
If you do go and decide to try it with a guy you can always say stop if you feel it isn't right for you.
Whatever you decide to do - have fun.
2007-03-29 08:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Doesn't sound like you really want to."
actually, I think it sounds like he DOES want to, and wants our blessing on his wild night of debauchery.
I'm all for debauchery, and if his wife is cool with it, then as most here have said, do what you feel. Then go home with your wife, talk about it, and screw your brains out with her.*
*after you shower.
(my b/f worked up the courage to ask me about him having sex with other men if I'm not available. My reaction was not what he expected. Just talking about it got me so hawt, we screwed like bunnies the next 3 nights. He said, "you know, that sort of defeats the purpose.")
2007-03-29 09:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by tkdeity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants you to try it, and the fact that you're asking this questions says you're at least a little interested. I say go for it
2007-03-29 10:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you really want to. Only agree to do whatever you're comfortable with. Parties should be fun and entertaining - if it's a chore you'll undertake to please someone else (your wife) then I'm not certain that you should.
2007-03-29 09:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like this is a whole new definition of "no strings attached". Only do what you are comfortable with.
2007-03-29 09:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by Brent W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty school dropout, go back to high school.
Seriously, someone in your marriage has a screw loose.
2007-03-29 08:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hell, you may as well. You've got one life. Try it and see if you like it. If you don't, oh well.
2007-03-29 12:36:32 · answer #9 · answered by Charles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah go with the flow its all about havin sex
2007-03-29 08:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by James L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋