I'm pregnant. But i have some doubts about the identity of my baby's dad. I had a one night stand cause for several weeks my boyfriend and i were having some problems. I had sex on the fourth day of my period or a day after my period. I usually have 3-5 day menstrual bleeding. 12 days after my period, my boyfriend and I made up and we had sex a lot over the week. Is it possible that the guy with whom i had a one night stand is the father? i usually have a 29 day to 37 day cycle. And another thing, is it possible that even though you have a long cycle you had ovulated 6th day after the first day of your period? Thanks.
2007-03-29 00:37:23 · 12 answers · asked by Scaredycat 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i would think its your boyfriends, but truley it could be your one night stands, best bet would be to get a DNA test.
2007-03-29 00:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its so hard to say. Were you using contraception with either? You can wait until your dating scan which should tell you how far on you are (pretty much to the day). They take the first day of your last period as day 1 of your pregnancy and therefore you may be able to work it out from that. Your cycle is quite irregular but i'm not sure what else to suggest. With my first baby i got pregnant the day after my period ended, hubby and i got a bit drunk and weren't careful for the first time and mother nature stepped in and i was pregnant so the ovulation dates can be a littel sketchy. Sperm lives inside for a few days and can catch you ovulating after you had sex (hope that makes sense). You may have a little soul searching to do if you can't figure it out. You may need to come clean and explain to your boyfriend what has happened. Hope it works out for you. xx
2007-03-29 00:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I really feel for you in this situation. You made a mistake!!! A pretty BIG one & the best thing you can do now is WAIT! You are only very early in your pregnancy so anything could happen. Don't rush in & tell your boyfriend just yet that there is a possibilty he may not be the father but if the pregnancy does proceed then you owe it to him, yourself & your unborn child to be honest! Don't start this dear little child's life out on a lie that may come back to ruin all your lives! You made a mistake but that doesn't mean that you have to keep paying for it the rest of your life! Forgive yourself & move on. Good Luck & be kind to yourself.
Take care!
2007-03-29 00:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by icareboutyu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible but it's most likely that your bf is the father. You ovulate during the middle of your cycle (assuming the beginning of your cycle is the first day of your period), so the time you had sex with the bf is more toward when you were ovulating.
2007-03-29 00:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by Nasubi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that that your BF has the greatest possibility since you tend to ovulate 15 days after your menstrual cycle.
I recommend that you get a paternity test done which means you are going to have to have a serious talk with your BF.
Sweetie, no sense of preaching to the choir. But next time, think about using protection or just saying "No".
Good Luck and please no Maury appearances!
2007-03-29 00:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Honeyluv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow what a math problem...I am not that good at math so I am going to say....I'm the father.... or maybe your boyfriend is the father....Or whatever else you are willing to believe.
This looks like a problem for Maury.
2007-03-29 09:01:05 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess your BF because you were just ending the period and probably not ovulating yet.
2007-03-29 00:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by justme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's highly unlikely that you got pregnant from your one night stand, though not impossible. Try to relax.
2007-03-29 00:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres always a possiblity....but u should have used protection!!! and if u wanna know whos the bbaby's daddy they have test they can do while the baby is still in u to find out!! just ask u gyno...good luck....n God Bless!!
2007-03-29 00:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by Min l 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why didn't you use protection??Then u would know who your fathered your baby..that is one use for a condom..
2007-03-29 02:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋