I don't get it. I am short and over weight. I wear baggy clothes, I never wear make-up or do my hair and nails, I never wear dresses or skirts and guys still come up and flurt with me. I don't get it. Why the heck are men atracted to me? I never say a word or do anything. I just sit there or I am just walking around. They keep asking for my number for some reason and all I have is a long distance number. And what I really don't get is why the majority of the guys are black when I am white. What the heck is going on? What am I missing?
2007-03-28 20:58:58 · 9 answers · asked by teetalla 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Its the way you Dress and Carry yourself. A guy will pick on someone with low self esteem and take advantage of it by Flattery to get what they want to.
2007-03-28 21:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say But Black Guys do like bigger Women
and its going to happen to you all the time
cause its obvious that you have something about u that
African Americans are attracted to .... change ur look i would say that would be the only thing i can think of...
Sorry Not much help
2007-03-29 04:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, believe it or not, not all guys like tall skinny blond hair bimbos. Allot of guys like girls that are just , whats the word..natural. The guys I usually hang around with aren't exactly looking for Paris Hilton. Good luck with the guys!
2007-03-29 04:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by Laurel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them the nearby police station phone number that all. I have do this to some guys and now they do not bother me.
Try your luck!!!
Tubby
2007-03-29 04:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by Tubby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
self confidence. Men like confident women. And if they see you are confident without having to "do yourself up" then they see you are confident with how you really look.
Plus some guys just like bigger girls (without knowing how big you are thats just a general statement.)
2007-03-29 04:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by celtic_princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
black men seem to be attracted to overweight white girls because they think they have a good chance of getting them in the sack.
2007-03-29 04:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you're pretty and a lot of guys get attracted to you..you lucky though..some girls do all the work to get their guy but you, you just sit there and guys go to you..:)
2007-03-29 04:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by rayleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are either much hotter than you realize or these guys are more hard up than you realize. I suspect it is the former.
2007-03-29 04:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do they ask you out?
2007-03-29 04:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋