i'm about 4.5 and my girl friend laughed when she saw it and she left me what should i do now?
She also said she is going to tell her friends so by the end of the week everyone will know i have a small penis and no girl will want to go out with me
What do i do?
2007-03-28 20:41:52 · 20 answers · asked by michael 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Your ex-gf is very immature and you are better off without her. if you are below 18, you will still grow.
Be confident and know that techniques work well far better than size. Friends might tease you but pay no attention to it, rather give a confident smile back. don't say anything. This cause them to pause and rethink about the validity of the information.
Next time with a girl, use long foreplay till she is absolutely ready and wants it badly. It is a good idea to masturbate before hand to make you stay on for a long time.
2007-03-28 22:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. I'm a member of the "little dick" club too. I've never been dumped by a girlfriend because of this. It's usually because I'm being an asshole. I've thought about responding to one of those bulk mail advertisements promising me an added 3 inches using their product, but then what do I need with a four inch penis anyway? Maybe I'll just buy a large truck.
2007-03-28 21:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by paganvegan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The average range of European descended men is 4 - 7 inches, so you are in the average 90%. Don't go out with any of her friends, then; choose others who want other qualities in a boyfriend, like a sense of humour, kindness, consideration, and a good sexual technique, instead of just sticking it in and banging away (stop moving for a short time if you feel about to "come", and some last longer by thinking about sports, or ice cubes/cold water down their back). It is important to ask girls to tell you how you are doing, and what they like most, and to use a lot of foreplay first, kissing the neck, licking the nipples, stroking the buttocks, gently palpating breasts and nipples (some don't like this, most do - ask if she would prefer you not to touch her breasts); avoid direct stimulation of the clitoris unless they ask for it expressly. Rotate your finger around it, without touching it, then, after several seconds, move your fingers rapidly back and forth, near it without touching, then go back to moving it around in small circles again. Most girls' masturbation techniques involve stimulation of the shaft of their clitoris, and few orgasm without some form of clitoral stimulation. If you become good at this, you will become very popular indeed: most guys aren't! All girls are different - tell them you really want to know what turns them on most: modify your methods accordingly. Always use a condom! Avoid oral, until you have a long term partner, and you have both been checked out by a doctor, as there are nasty things you can pick up!!!
2007-03-29 02:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by CLICKHEREx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your penis size is the only thing she was interested in, then you are better off without her. Don't worry about your size; it doesn't matter. Find someone that likes you for you and not your size.
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2007-03-29 03:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by JD, MAPSY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No offence but your girlfriend is an immature sl*t. A real girlfriend cares more about you than just d*ck size. They care about personality and intelligence. You should be glad that dumb*ss left you. If you had children with her, you may end up having children as stupid as her anyways. Those women that have problems with dick size are not even worth your time dating. As a guy I don't give rat's *ss about breast size so chances are that there may be women evolved enough to approach romance beyond the "reptillian layers" of their brains. So you may have a small dick, (Who Cares!?) at least you have a bigger brain. Just tell your ex-girlfriend to grow up. Find a girl that does not treat you like a "meat market".
2007-03-28 20:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
f.u.c.k. her ***** that! tell that ***** to go ***** herself. you kinda sound young still so, you still may grow a bit. 4.5 isnt that bad, i mean you got what you got. you just gotta learn to work w/ it bro. dont let this kick in the nuts get ya down. get out there and whip it out on another poor young lady and give her the beat down of her life. as far as your"girlfriend" goes, dont sweat it, it'll blow over real quick. she'll be around, get her tipsy, jer.k off on her face, and have a sandwich. next time make a better judgemnet call when you find interest in a young lady. sluts are bad for the soul, a real woman can save it.
2007-03-29 01:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by timmy78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does that, she never felt anything special 4 u. Don't sweat it. If she does that..just tell every1 that she has a huge vagina w/ some crust on it...Good luck ! PS: Remember ..is not the size of the boat but, the motion in the ocean that counts.
2007-03-28 21:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by Gambit-Xeneise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u have a small penis, cause thats the way God made u. i mean, if she loved u then she wouldnt care about the size of ur penis!!! hey if i had a guy whos penis was small i wouldnt care...as long as he ate p u s s y good, then thats fine with me!!! everybody wins :)
2007-03-28 21:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jeannette 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing you can do except feel grateful that you have got this insensitive girl out of your life.
Ignore any remarks. People are only looking for a reaction. If they don't get one, they will stop.
2007-03-28 21:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Size of your penis is determined genetically. You can try to increase it, mostly for self-esteem. There are few safe methods to increase your penis.How? Read articles about that - http://healthy-net.info/penis-size/
2007-03-29 03:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by Peter S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋