well u c my prob is dat i broke up wit my bf coz i found out he was cheatn on me.. i cried d whole day in school coz i was hurtn a lot.. den after skool he apologized lik a lot sayn it was untrue.. i went 2 my frnds house coz i thought he wudnt no her house .. bt he was der l8r wit a frnd of his.. he went on sayn sry n sayn dat he luvd me.. i took him back .. 2 mths l8r i found him kissn y best frnd.. confronted both of them.. nw he calls me up2 say nthn hpnd n he cant liv witout me n dat he wants me back.. even my best frnd admitted dat it was her fault n dat i shud take him back.... wat shud i do ???????????
2007-03-28 18:59:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Life is too short to waste time and effort on relationships that are ruined from the start.
Will you really be able to be happy with yourself for limiting your worth. You can do better. You are young and there are many guys out there far better and more faithfull. Let it go.
2007-03-28 19:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by scotthomas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, YOU ARE TOO GOOD for both of them!!! You already gave him one chance and that's ENOUGH. he probably did cheta on ytou the first time, and the fact that he would do it again is DISCUSTING. It doesn't matter if your friend seduced him or not, he still did it! And your best friend did this!!??? I would tell them both to F off! You deserve a MUCH BETTER friend and a much better man! He says he can't live without you, but if you give him ANOTHER chance, he will just think that you will always forgive him, and keep doing stuff like this to you over and over again. If he REALLY did love you, he wouldn't have done that.
And if your best friend, was actually ur best friend, she would NEVER EVER do that to you. Leave them both, and show them that they CANNOT WALK ALL OVER YOU.
STOP TALKING TO THEM
Good Luck with everything sweety, and remeber, there is someone out there, someone who you deserve, that will NEVER hurt you, EVER, and that person will be your best friend, and SO much more.
-Melanie
2007-03-28 19:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by *Melanie* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fORGET him , once a cheater always a cheater u forgave him the first time only to give him more reason to cheat on you again and with your so called best friend... some friend!!!!!!!!!!! if i were you simple move on and tell both of them to stay away .. your worth more than that and dont deserve to be taken for a fool. go and find someone who will respect u and treat u well.
2007-03-28 19:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you take him back in the frist place
dont listen to your friend
if you take him back
this is going to happen all over again
start new
fresh
possibly a new friend too
just what ever you do
dont take him back
finish off the realtionship forever
if he rly loved you
he wouldnt do that
2007-03-28 19:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by Babaloo S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose them BOTH!!! A true friend would NEVER disrespect you and do that with your bf!!! A guy who loves you-will not go and hook up with your best friend!!! You deserve to be treated better than what they did to you!!!
2007-03-28 19:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by Noodles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should learn to spell. Maybe you should spend more time studying at this school you're going to and less time with that loser boyfriend of yours.
2007-03-28 19:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it careful...he has already hurt you before and he may do it again. Unless you are realdy for another heartache, I suggest you dump this guy.
2007-03-28 19:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ih cheat on you once he will cheat on you 1000 time
2007-03-28 19:12:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with melanie.
if yu take him back... he will tek yu as too forgiving and he will do it again n again.
2007-03-28 19:17:30 · answer #9 · answered by aminnylabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋