....you were a divorced man who found out this girl you had been dating and really liked was still a virgin at 24 years old?
2007-03-28 18:45:47 · 12 answers · asked by Callie B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would be happy I'd found someone with some character and who shared a belief with me that sex is too important an act of intimacy to be treated as something casual.
It would also be a good sign that she had good self-esteem and a solid bead on her own self worth.
The only possible downside would be if she was a virgin not because of the reasons listed above but because she was not wired to enjoy sex and would never be able to enjoy sexuality. This is rare but it does happen. A woman who can not appreciate, enjoy, and share sex with her partner is someone I would pass by, but that's a totally separate issue and completely unrelated to whether she's actually had sex or not.
It would be far more likely that this person just values herself and the act of sex highly, which is a good and healthy thing. It's much less likely that this is someone incapable of sharing intimacy, so I wouldn't worry much about that.
2007-03-28 19:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thrilled, then worried. Why on earth would a 24-year-old woman be virgin? If it's a religious thing, that, in my experience, does not bode well for marriage. I was engaged to a woman like that and learned the hard way such women are NOT ideal candidates for love and marriage. I broke it off, and as far as I know, she's still a virgin. That was in 1965!
2007-03-29 07:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be happy that she is still a virgin. Its difficult to find a virgin at 24 nowadays.
2007-03-29 01:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by alain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
glad.. Most 24 year olds have been around and caught something.. if the question is more sex related, just because she is a virgin doesnt mean she doesnt have experience. It just means she hasnt had intercourse.
2007-03-29 01:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by billiejule1981 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that she has not been embittered by bad experiences, and feel a bit pressured to ensure that everything was very special for her as to not give her a bad time (I am not referring to sex).
That is rare today, but there is nothing wrong with it.
2007-03-29 01:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by fromorto12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was considering her for a future wife, I would probably
be delighted...
However, I don't know if I would actually marry her without
having sex with her first..
I might settle for some really good oral...from her & to her...
2007-03-29 01:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You most likely should of told him first, but atleast if you tell him now and he leaves, you know hes not the one anyway!
2007-03-29 01:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could certainly see you being surprised, but you should be extremely grateful to have someone who is pure this day and age. you shoul have a lot of respect for this woman. i do!
2007-03-29 02:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a treat in otherwords I'd feel like it is a great start i admire that
2007-03-29 01:55:25 · answer #9 · answered by Ramon O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a man, but I would think he would respect that.
2007-03-29 01:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋