I feel very bad about life some times , what do i do ?

Question

There is nowhere for me to hang out that makes me feel good about myself.Sometimes i feel like that i want to get a break from school work and have conversations with others. It gets very boring other wise.When i get bored at home from school work , i visit the local starbucks and see some of the people i know.They are not very educated and try to put me down. I decided not to go there any more but i failed finding any other place. I have to admit that i am 33 years old now. Not as attractive as some years ago. I was making friends easily before with young people and now is hard. For six years i sotped going to school after graduating from community college. I started University with double majored of German and aero space engingering Spring of 2005 and got stuck in calculus3, because i took the other two calcs six years ago.So now that i am not doing aero space anymore, i am left with German only. That makes people to make even more fun of me.

Oh and i enjoy english and being with american friends, that i dont have anymore. The people that i meet at the starbucks are my native people and most of them unaware of the society, language and culture here. How and where do i make american friends? Being in my age. I belive its not so much my age, but the fact that i have lost confidence. Also i am deciding to minor in buisness even though it takes another year to finish school. Maybe even double majore buisness and german. Am i a looser for not having a job and good life at this stage of life? What do you suggest i need to do ?

I enjoy outdoors and day time activities. I dont like bars and night clubs.

Answer 1

Explore..33 is still young.. Become a regular at a coffee shop/ or bar.. When you think everythings turned against you .you have nothing to lose..do what you ahve always wanted to do.

Answer 2

Achievement and Fulfillment. You're going to need them both to be happy. If you're down about feeling like an underachiever, do something hard. Work at it until you get it! The key is: Yagottawanna.
If you're feeling unfulfilled, build meaningful relationships with others in a wholesome environment. You're probably not going to find this in a coffee shop or a bar. Surround yourself with others whose personal qualities you admire and you would like to emulate. Choose friends who help you to be your best self. This is a great start.

Best of Luck,

Jello

Answer 3

Dear friend as I understand, you are a clever, assiduous, sensitive person
I know that the thoughts we do create the feelings we have. So, you could change a litle the point of view like:
You said: "Ι feel very bad about life..."
but you can say: "I enjoy life, I;m a healthy, clever person, I; m only 33 and I have a great dynamic inside me. I already have many achievements in my life, so i can manage any awkward situation.I can set the proper goals for me and i can achieve them all"
I hope to find this, usefull for you .
If you would like you could contuct with me at email [e-mail]

Answer 4

I think you should explore new places. Maybe you are too intelligent for the people you associate with?

no because you are pursuing a degree and you want to have a better life. You shouldn't let people making fun of you depress you. Forget about what anyone thinks and just do what will make you happy!

Answer 5

Hmm. Do you go Online much? There's this new Website called, "Meetup.com". And what it is- is ALL different groups you can check out & join- and be with people of similar interests. Give it a "shot"- & see what happens. You never know... God luck! :)

Answer 6

you could do a simple everyday job to make friends. It does sound frusterating but you can do it.

Answer 7

join the community bro...we are all around the world..

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