He is the most respected guy in school, smart, handsome, kind and everything you want in a guy. Lots of girls fall for him but he dosent care a bit. He's single despite all this great qualities he has. Before, i didnt care a bit. Why would i? I'm not pretty, just average. and i am not as smart as he is. But since we finished high school,he's been sending messages to me, looking for me and all that. does he like me? I'm to ashamed to think about it because i think he is way too good for me. What should i do?
2007-03-28 18:23:43 · 9 answers · asked by aned_z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have two options here, whether he likes you or he just wants to be your friend, I think you can realize what he wants by the context of the messages he send, are they romantic? do they say something that makes you think he might have romantic feelings for you?
2007-03-28 18:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by smiley_girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once you finish highschool, it's politics effectively come to an end. Being the "hot" girl in high school doesn't make you the "hot" one in the real world. Being the cool, star jock doesn't make you the cool guy in the real world.
The beauty for some, is that once you leave high school and are released into the real world it's a fresh start. No matter how cool he was in high school, he's just your average joe now, so don't be worried about that!
You should do whatever your heart is telling you, don't be intimidated by previous stature. I'm only 19 years old, I'm working two jobs and currently earning about a grand per week, I have a fantastic relationship with a girl I love to death. A lot of people I went to school with are still clinging onto their old high school titles, and where are they now? A lot are unemployed, over weight and sit around drinking beer all day talking about everyone they envy.
In summary: high school titles mean nothing, in my opinion go for it, and good luck.
2007-03-28 18:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the guy. He's not as perfect as you think he is. We all have our flaws. He's just probably better at hiding them. If he likes you, don't down yourself all the time or he'll question why he likes you. Perhaps he sees something in you that you don't see in yourself. If you think he's that great and he's trying to hook up with you, doesn't that say something about how great you are? He obviously thinks so. Stop doubting yourself. You have good qualities. It's ok to be good at something and it's ok to be proud of yourself.
2007-03-28 18:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG Dont think of him as too good for you. Everyone deserves to be loved and be able to give love. I would suggest that you go slow. For one thing, you shouldnt rush a good thing. And another thing- it will give you the opportunity to get comfortable with the relationship. Give yourself time to get to know him and for him to know you. It sounds like you are becoming friends. Let it develop! And remember!! You are good enough. You have to love yourself before you can be ready to love someone else! Good luck!! Hopefully it will develop into something wonderful. A good friend or someone you can be in love with.
2007-03-28 18:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by ahzreem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your never not good enough for someone maybe not right for them but never not good enough but if I were you I would get a hold of him because maybe he does like you usually the ones with those kind of quality look for current type of girls and maybe your what he looking for. Good luck
2007-03-28 18:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by randrnorman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one is too good for you!!! you are to good for them.
every one has there own personal qualities that makes them, well them and with me and my boy friend we are complete opposites but the other person needs to have different qualities to even out the relationship, even in a friendship.
and i think you should talk to him and see where it goes!
2007-03-28 18:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by espressobean03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance - Maybe he See's something good in you and wants to be your friend or maybe more - Keep your self open -
2007-03-28 18:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by pattijohughes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think that if you don't take a chance you may regret it. even if he doesn't like you he wants to get to know you and you might at least become great friends
2007-03-28 18:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help him catch you..
2007-03-28 18:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋