he treats me bad he does not love me any more we have a son and he does not even plays or caries hem around i have a long time i do not go anywere with hem i don't see hem at home he comes home goes to sleep wakes up and leave that's our life he really treats me like trash we fight every day he is like a single man i really wnato leave but i don't have nowere to go i need help to know like what to do is there any places that can help me i have nothing it all if a live and nobrfegvhn mobody to help me pleasee what do i do?
i really apologyse for my writting if it's hard to understand this is not really my lenguage thanks for understanding
god bless
2007-03-28 17:56:30 · 10 answers · asked by sweet kiss 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Where are you located? You need to find the Department of Social Services because you're really in trouble! A church might be able to help too. If all else fails, go to the police. You need to get out because you're living a miserable life!
2007-03-28 18:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!!! Talk to someone at your local department of social services or get ahold of a domestic abuse counsler. They can help you find housing and even a job if you are unemployed. Plus get ahold of a good lawyer because your husband could end up paying alimony and child support. Do this for yourself and your child! Don't let a man treat you badly when there are plenty out there that won't. I will keep you in my prayers.
2007-03-28 18:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by chunkysmom3502 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you live so can't give you anything but general ideas. Most large cities have shelters for battered women. They will take you and your children, protect you from him, help you get started again and so forth. But you have to look for them, perhaps on the internet. Battered women shelters is what you're looking for. Good luck and god bless you.
2007-03-28 18:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he beats you, look for an agency in your area that counsels women who are abused. They can tell you what you need to know to get back on your feet and how to do it without having to fight with your husband about it. Help for Abused Women and Children is an agency in my area (in the U.S.) but they are everywhere in some guise. Ask the pastor at your church - he will know.
2007-04-01 17:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in a bad situation, you need to become more independent...even trying to be so will make your husband think twice about you leaving him...but you need to go to school or find a job to support yourself so you can be able to make decisions of what you would like to do instead of being dependent on what your current situation allows...good luck.
2007-03-28 18:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your local women's shelter and get out of that environment. If he's beating on you, he'll soon start in on the children.
You also need to call the police and ask for their help. He deserves to go to jail for beating on you.
2007-03-28 18:11:36 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treats you like trash just divorce! This is happening to my mom & dad. Exactly alike. She is deciding to divorce or not, it really sucks. But I worn you, your son might be REALLY sad about this. Just saying! I don't want to be harsh or anything, but it might be true!
2007-03-28 18:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by Gingy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you just need to leave the guy. things are going to get worse before they get better. you need to go to the police first . they can hook you up with a place to stay and they will arrest the guy. get out before it gets worse
2007-03-28 18:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Nicky james 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a b/f that can help you out. or look on your p/c for help
2007-03-28 18:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek counseling. if not, move on. does he have drug/alcohol problems.
2007-03-28 18:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by just hanging around 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋