So I know this question will probably piss off a few of you women, but considering the number one reason relationships fail is over lack of communication, how many or you women are willing to admit that you are causing your own problems? Here is why.
Women are excellent communicators, when it involves your female friends. Your communication with your partners however are far from adequate and here is why.
Women feel that we men should just be able to know when you have a problem, or know what you are thinking. I hate to break it to you, but none of us can read minds. For example.... when your partner does something that gets on your nerves, you throw hints about it, but you never outright come out and say anything... you just flat out dont communicate openly with your partner. Sure.... you have absolutely no problems going and bitching to your girlfriends about it, but the only person that matters, and the one who can actually do anything about it is completely left out..
2007-03-28
17:54:45
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The problem with that is that most of the time you dont talk with your partner about it until it actually becomes a huge problem, and then by that time its too late... Just like when you tell your partner that you dont want anything for your birthday, and know full well that you really do... and you simply expect us to know that you want something... Why is that? Why do you just assume that we should know what you are thinking? Dont you think your lack of communication could very well be one of the BIGGEST reasons so many relationships fail?
The sad thing is you dont even realize it, and when it does fail... we're still blamed for it... as if you couldn't believe that we arent able to read your mind and just know what you need or dont need?
2007-03-28
17:55:08 ·
update #1
So women are never the problem? I love it how every single woman who has posted about this topic doesnt have the problem... its everyone else... Not me, I have perfect communication LOL... So its the non existant women out there who do this then... not the real ones.. never. Why is it women are NEVER wrong? You know... in ANY relationship, 50% of the problem lies with each half of the partnership... very rarely does the blame lay solely on one partner or the other... and even if you look at a situation where one spouce cheated on the other... fine, the spouce that was cheated on probably has some of the blame too... considering the fact that if you looked at your relationship critically, you would likely have to ask yourself... ok.. what did I do that caused him or her to go searching for someone else? But no... a woman is never wrong LOL
2007-03-29
05:06:52 ·
update #2