His is so low and I am starting to feel so unattractive. We talk about it... but he just has no drive... HELP.. I am going insane
2007-03-28 17:50:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
can't help. I've never had a problem with a low sex drive, mine has always been in overdrive.
2007-03-28 17:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Brian D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well everyones drive is different and i do understand how it can make you feel un attractive or like he doesnt want you-it is good that you talk about it-i suggest if you havent already ask him what there might be that you could do that would help him to get in the mood when he is not feeling it-like a fantasy he has or what he may like to try---or dance for him etc -i would think there has to be something that he would like to try or has fantasized about-maybe that will help-but dont let it make you feel bad about yourself-that he has a low drive that has nothing to do with your attractiveness as a women:)
2007-03-29 00:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by roxy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband has the same problem and i am going crazy also..i seen everyone else's answers and if he did have a sex drive they would work..Viagra is the best answer but the pressure of waiting for it to work is killer!,, i think just making him feel good about himself, making nice comments to him, leaving him a sexy voice mail or email, getting a babysitter, having a nice dinner and definitely being the aggressor unless he likes to be...
he may have low self esteem, he may have physical problems, there may be reasons he has a low sex drive, once you explore them you both can work together to help him
2007-03-29 01:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by LOONEY LADY 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you have to be sexy all the time when he comes home from work have a bubble bath waiting, rose petals leading to the bathroom and candles soft music , turn him on . Get some flic if he watches that, dress up and role play .
2007-03-29 00:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by Kbella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, I think you should put a little perfume on late at night after the kids are sleeping dress in something sexy and have a few candles lit play some soft music and kiss him starting at his neck down and believe me he'll have a sex drive..
2007-03-29 00:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by Gina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
every man has a sex drive . i am not trying to be rude or anything but maybe he is getting it some where else a bit to much and when he gets to you he has no more drive left. sweetie it's not u it's him
2007-03-29 00:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try something different. Sounds like you are in a rut. Try wearing a wig to change what you look like. There is nothing wrong with a healthy fantasy life.. Make him think you're a different girl...It might work...Never know till you try..But you defiantly need to try something....Good luck
2007-03-29 00:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was in yoru shoes not long ago i almost cheated cause we would go weeks with out sex and i tryed every thing and just one day out of the blue he got his sex drive back thank god. i think all men have this problem any way if you want to chat more my gambrel_amanda@yahoo.com
2007-03-29 01:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by amanda g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Viagra.
2007-03-29 00:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Nitz Frugent 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will return after the final four.
2007-03-29 04:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by jed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋