I kinda like this guy,and enjoy going out with him for movies,etc. Problem is i'm not sure whether he is gay or not because he 30+ and he does not have any girl friend, he hang out with guys most of the time. He's gorgeous but sometimes the way he moves and gestures seems like un manly if there's any such word.
I'm confused here. Help! I have asked him in a joking manner whether he's gay and he said it's for him to know and for me to find out.
2007-03-28 17:40:55 · 27 answers · asked by salina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yup, he's gay. Here is a great way to test if he is or not though. It's 3 steps.
Step one: Ask him to look at his nails.
If he looks at them palm down he's gay. Straight guys curl their fingers into a monkey like fist to look at their nails.
Step two: Tell him to look up at the stars one night (make sure you point directly above you).
If he looks up using only his eyes, he's gay. Straight guys tilt their head backwards as far as it can go.
Step Three: Tell him to look at the bottom of his shoe because you thought he stepped in something.
If he looks at his shoe by looking backwards while his foot is back and pointed, he's gay. Straight guys pull their leg forward and bend the knee sideways.
If you get mixed answers, try to sleep with him. Then you know for sure... Hopefully.
2007-03-28 17:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by ammonnelson2002 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, any man I know will straight out say I'm not gay specially if he knows you are interested in him. If he has some sugary ways then 9 times out of 10 he might be a Down Low guy.
2007-03-29 00:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kbella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just has a hard time finding women because (like yourself) they assume he's gay for having weird mannerisms. Go give him a chance. I know that MY gestures and mannerisms are in no means "normal", but I'm as straight as they come. *lol*
2007-03-29 00:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, acting 'unmanly' is not always a sign of being homosexual. lol. Neither or the other things you said. The only way to truly find out is from him, and either he likes you and is just joking around when he says that, or he is and is not ready to tell you. I would just keep spending time with him until he is comfortable enough around you to tell you for sure.
2007-03-29 00:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by exaltedchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are efeminine some guys are gay. we can only be sure if he had a boyfriend. on a date you can ask him what are the qualities she is looking for in a woman since he never had a gf. he might just have a very high standard. or you can joke about the qualities he's looking in a man.. **wink wink
2007-03-29 08:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by jan-na~♥~ and im luvin it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. His answer suggests he's trying to see what your response would be. If you enjoy going out with him, why does it matter, unless you want a long term relationship. Be up front with him. Don't joke. That's why people get hurt and have emotional problems.
2007-03-29 00:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by Morningstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! I think, if he moves like he's a gay guy, then he probably is, and the thing over 30 with no lady! He must be! Or he's just fooling you.
2007-03-29 00:43:35 · answer #7 · answered by Gingy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably gay*, but you should not push him for an answer. He's right - it's his business.
*Only way to be sure would be to introduce us. If I fall for him in less than 1 hour, there's a 99.9% chance he's gay.
2007-03-29 00:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just ask him. Him being single at 30 doesn't really mean anything. Some guys just bloom later in life.
2007-03-29 00:43:56 · answer #9 · answered by becky m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The info you provide is not enough. You got to find out more yourself. Read his blogs, look up his friendster or Myspace. You should be able to pick up many hints from there.
2007-03-29 00:44:52 · answer #10 · answered by goodmanbing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋