Can I get a girls point of view plz?

Question

I met a 25 yo girl at church last month. she seems confident and she keeps wanting to start a conversations with me.

She asked for my email and phone number one night which I politely gave her so she can send me additional info on the group which she did. why did she need my phone number?

Last week when she was leaving church with her friends she told me we can have coffee to discuss anything. I took no notice at the time.

Last night I saw her at church gathering. We made about 5 silent eye contacts in which she keeps looking away. She started small talk with me again. During the night I notice we kept making silent eye contacts. She would look away quickly. but when she was leaving she hardly gave me a nice goodbye like she did with my friend. Why?

This girls actions are confusing...

Answer 1

First off im a guy, I have a wonderful family. This girl is a churh going god fearing woman, probably with down to earth morals and a sence of self awwerness. Just because she is a christain doesn't meen she does not have they urges of any other girl or young woman. She seems shy to me after reading this. She would like to get to know you but she wants to see if you feel the same way. I think she is unsure of your feelings tward her. She is probably not a onenight stand ( for lack of a better term) type of girl. She is looking for commitment. Yes some guys can actually say or type this word without fear. if you likethis girl give her a chance. Ask her out for coffee to talk about church stuff, then casually change the subject, if you truely are interested in her you should be able to ask questions about her. Start with the normal ice breakers. if you feel you could make a connection with her ask her out on a date. keep in mind this coffe thing isn't really a date it is to talk about church stuff. make her feel how interested you are. and be ready to answer her questions about you. be honest and open with her. If you are an axe murderer i'd leave that part out though lol just kidding.
All joking aside if you didn't like her you would not have asked this question. so good luck and hope you two wil be happy for a long time.

Answer 2

You got that right. Thats majorly confusing. I don't think you should have given her your number. Church woman or not you do not know her. Maybe she's a lesbian and she likes you which is why shes actin all shy and what not. Or maybe she heard a rumor about you and know she feels uncomfortable around you. You should just ask her whats up.

Answer 3

Without knowing her nor the group it's hard to say. Maybe someone said something negative about you. Some women can be catty like that. Either way, I think I'd avoid her and that group if she's a typical example of them.

Answer 4

She might be playing hard-to-get, or trying to intrigue you. Or maybe she just has a lot of mixed motives and acts upon them differently depending on which she was feeling the most strongly at that time.

Answer 5

Set up a coffee date with her and see what happens from there.

Answer 6

girl like feeling desired,whether she desires u or not. when i was a teenager a guy played the staring game with me in church 4 years,n never introduced himself or spoke to me. if u like her ask her out,if not end the games.

Answer 7

Maybe you ought to just take her up on her offer to go get coffee...maybe during your conversation things will get clearer as to whether or not she is interested or just overly friendly

Answer 8

I think the girl has got stuck by Cupid's arrow!
She may have got infatuated .
Don't bother about the " good bye " part..it is usual!
A bit of shyness is sweet for girls..right?
Anyway...BEST WISHES!

Answer 9

She likes you. If I were you, I would ask her for her phone number and ask her on a date.

Answer 10

Hey pal, get rid of this gal. She sounds terrible.