he treats me bad he does not love me any more we have a son and he does not even plays or caries hem around i have a long time i do not go anywere with hem i don't see hem at home he comes home goes to sleep wakes up and leave that's our life he really treats me like trash we fight every day he is like a single man i really wnato leave but i don't have nowere to go i need help to know like what to do is there any places that can help me i have nothing it all if a live and nobrfegvhn mobody to help me pleasee what do i do?
i really apologyse for my writting if it's hard to understand this is not really my lenguage thanks for understanding
god bless
2007-03-28 17:37:37 · 11 answers · asked by sweet kiss 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think that you sound hot, love the accent. You should leave your husband and come stay with me. Where are you, I'll rescue you from that bad situation.
2007-03-28 17:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweetie. Look if it is that bad you have a few options onen to you. First, try talking to him. He may be going through something that you dont know about. It could be a work related problem or maybe he is worried about money. You can also try going to counseling. It is a good way to get all the problems out in the open. He definatly has some problems, its just a matter of getting them out in the open. Did you do anything to bring this out? I'm not sure why he wouldent want to play with his son though. That is something I dont understand one bit. He shouldent take his anger out on his son. If he wont agree to counseling, the last option is divorce. You are entitled to half of everything unless you signed a prenuptial agreenment. If you have the kid, you can fight for the house (if you can afford to keep it or you can even sell it). Dont let him tell you that you will get nothing. You have rights. You can also get alomoney from him and child support. Dont let him treat you like a doormat. You are the mother of his child and you deserve some respect. Has he ever hit you? If not, be careful because if he treats you so bad, he could get violent. You can always get help. There are shelters and safe houses all over the place. Look in a phone book and find family and human resources. They will know how to help you. Dont give up. You dont want your son seeing how your husband treats you. He will think it is ok to treat women like crap and repeat the cycle. Good luck!
2007-03-29 01:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by big mamma 85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first take a deep breath... Alright, now there are tons of resources. If you have Internet and obviously you do. Go and google your town and "women's shelter". You should be able to find a place to stay with them until you get on your feet. You could also get this information from any doctor's office or police station. The more informed you are the better off you will be!
Good luck, I wish you the best!
2007-03-29 00:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is abusing you you can go to a battered womens shelter and they will help you get on your feet with your child, you can file for divorce and get alimony and child support from your husband and call social services, once you leave you need to take out a 50b which is a restraining order allowing you to have temporary full custody of your son. Also, pray to God to reveal, and guide you through this.
2007-03-29 00:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kbella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it isn't about him. f he is beating you, then you need to leave. If you have no where to go,.....there are places out there. Depending on where you are, there are shelters for battered women, that will help you. There are also crisis lines, you can call and they will give you #'s to these places. If you need further help, you can email me at: melissamiller_79@yahoo.com
I have been in your situation and know what it's like. Hang in there and remember, if you need further help, just email me and I will help you look stuff up. My name is Melissa
2007-03-29 00:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by melissamiller_79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's really that bad, there are plenty of places you can go. Check the phone book for women's and children's shelters in your area, and call them. If you explain what's happening, they can often point you in the right direction. Good luck, and God bless you, too.
2007-03-29 00:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say that u dump him and get child support that will help you a little bit but it will take a while but in the mean time get some money at a part time job and stay with a friend or family, they will understand
2007-03-29 00:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by UNC fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your husband is treating you like this especially if he abuse
you time to get out now, you are not doing your son or yourself
any just by staying with this man. talk to someone to fiqure
out what you need to do.
2007-03-29 00:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww honey...I am so sorry. You do whatever you need to do to get out of this relationship. Start saving money on the side and work your way to moving on. You don't deserve this.
2007-03-29 00:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by Smooch The Pooch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a womens shelter in your area. They will help you get on your feet so you can be on your own
2007-03-29 00:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by ~C~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋