2007-03-28 17:22:39 · 11 answers · asked by Andy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, if asked while at work it can be considered sexual harrassment so be careful where and how you ask. Plus, maybe this person doesn't want anyone to know. It's hard to answer this not knowing if you are interested or if you are even the same sex as this person. But I think the simplest could be to ask a "what if" type question using general issues or ficticious people. If it's someone you do speak to about personal things then say you were invited to a party and have to get a gift for someone that is gay but also someone you hardly know. First you don't know what to get and second not sure you should even go. You ask their opinion of what they would do in your situation, be sure to ask someone else the same question so it doesn't look 'targetted'. Then you may find your answer and also later you are covered by not having to explain how the party was - you simply "didn't go afterall". Not that you were uncomfortable, you just didn't really know the person and had other plans catching up on your tivo.
2007-03-28 17:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by dittersdoodles 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How would that effect you in any way, unless he's hitting on you. Apparently, he is not or you would not have to wonder. I never concern myself about a person's sexual preference. The most important thing is....how good of person they are, how they treat other people.
2007-03-28 18:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First look at how that person is dressed, if that person is always concerned about their appearance then that's a dead giveaway. Or ask that person where they do most of their shopping for clothing if it's the banana republic then that's another giveaway
2007-03-28 17:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by shortpimpette 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why does it matter if this person is gay or not???
2007-03-28 17:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would that be any of your business? Do you not have enough to do at work?But if you really must know, offer him a BJ..if he accepts, he will know you are gay, and you will know that he is horney enough to accept it.
2007-03-28 17:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why are you interested in him? If so hit on him and see if he wants you too. If you are just curious ask him if he has a girlfriend.
2007-03-28 17:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really that concerned, ask him/her, but watch out for the sexual harassment lawsuit to follow.
2007-03-28 17:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by courage78 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You ask them
2007-03-28 17:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't know and it shouldn't matter---basically it is a mind your own business thing.
2007-03-28 17:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this so you can avoid them or get with them?
2007-03-28 17:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by trendsetter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋