Am i getting played big time?....girls need your help!?

Question

were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else

now the other day i asked her to the movies, and she goes"will you be paying?"...well we never ended up going that night since she got really tired, so i took her back home and left.I asked her this week if she would wnna go movies my shout , and she said she wont be going out for at least 2.5 weeks since shes so wasted from study....what should i make of this?.....i feel she is just playing me along now?....what do you guys think?one really odd thing is she talks to me when she needs help, but other than that i have to talk to her first for her to start talking to me.....via txt/msn etc...is she playing hard to get?, or is she just playing me around....im thinking of not saying anything to her and see how she reacts?im now to a point where ive made so much effort, that im not going to anymore and see where it takes this relationship....good idea?

Answer 1

How many times are you going to post his??? Obviously your not giving up on this, you keep posting the same question...You need to move on.....

Answer 2

It sounds like shes into you, but might be useing you alittle for her own self esteem. You guys are young though, and for your age thats how relationships normally go. The only thing that gets me, is why do you have to talk to her first. Maybe shes playing hard to get on that one. If she didnt want anything to do with you or was playing you, i think you would notice if she acted different around other guys. I say ignore her for alittle bit, it will drive her crazy..

Answer 3

You are what I call a fan club member. Yes sounds like play to me. Part of your membership is to be used at their convenience. She is only 17 so part of this may be testing her femininity out on you. Best position is to not get your heart to involved until she settles down. Course she may never achieve this. Hang loose, hang out, but keep your options open.

Answer 4

alright honey, it seems to me that she may have feelings for you but it sounds like she's messin with your head alot which is so not cool. I say confront her, well not confront but sit down with her and actually discuss everything because she may infact like you but is too scared and doesnt know how to tell you. I had a similiar situation before and we were best friends....... he had actually liked me alot but when i finally got up the nerve to talk to him he had started talking to this other girl and i lost my chance, don't loose yours.

-shea3489

Answer 5

Yeah I think she is using you at least until something better comes along to her. Not saying that you are not good enough but probably too good for her. Just keep on doing what you need to do and focus on yourself.

Answer 6

Too much to read. It sounds like she is one crazy messed up chick. Typical of women these days so she is just "normal"

Answer 7

talk to her about it?!clear things out with her so that you would know what to expect from her!

Answer 8

calm down its not the end of the world.