If a girl looks left, right and all around?

Question

while I'm talking to her, does it mean she finds me boring? If ALL girls I talk to behave this way, what should I change about myself?

Answer 1

~It depends on how fast her head is moving all around. If it's moving slowly, she's probably falling asleep. If her head is spinning quickly and she's spurting out green pea soup, you'd better call a priest (and change your clothes).

Answer 2

I think in a previous question I answered I mentioned reading a biography of Franz Kafka. Seems a little off-topic but hear me out.

Kafka was very shy, somewhat isolated and felt great social awkwardness. He believed he always did and said the wrong things and that everyone must have hated him for it. He saw their derision of him everywhere, But the truth was very different. Most people of his acquaintance found him very polite, gentle, soft spoken and not half as awkward as he thought himself.

He also did not think much of his physical appearance. He was very thin and became even more so after he fell ill with T.B. Still more girls than he knew about fancied him and he was not famous till after his death so you can't pin their liking of him on celebrity. Nor was he rich.

My point is, you might be overestimating your social awkwardness just like he did. If there is something a little "odd" about you don't assume you have to change. There are far too many ordinary people in the world anyway.

Answer 3

I usually will make eye contact with anyone that is talking to me, but I will try to avoid the eye contact if the person....
has bad breath and I want to get away,
has crappy dental (like rotten teeth, chew in mouth, etc.)
bleeding scabs on the face (you catch my drift...)
is really boring
is asking questions but won't shut up and let me answer

These are a few reasons. If you have good hygiene, mabe it is your conversation. Be a listener and hear what others talk about that is of interest. Also, the world doesn't revolve around you so don't make the mistake of trying to talk about you to much.

Answer 4

Don't drone on, talk about things that require equal input for her as well as you ; you know a free flowing conversation. Failing that you may be attracted girls who have attention deficit disorder

Answer 5

yeah she finds you boring or you make her uncomfortable and is probably looking someone she knows as an excuse to leave you and go talk to them instead.

y dont you let her do the talking instead? women like men that are good listeners.

Answer 6

Just put a patch over your crooked eye. Then she will stop trying to figure out what you are looking at.

Answer 7

it could just mean she's like me and doesnt like eye contact, i dont like eye contact, after like a half second of looking sum1 in the eye i have to look away, there's only one person i didnt have to do that while i was talking to them, 1 person, and that...well ya. my point is, dont change urself, dont worry about it, she might just be kinda shy and not like constant eye contact.

Answer 8

2 possibilities

1) Maybe the conversation is boring
2) The place you guys were having conversation is filled with hunky/ good looking male

Answer 9

Stop walking in the ladies bathroom and blocking the exit?

Answer 10

yes she probaly finds what you are saying is boring change the subject that might help