2007-03-28 16:17:58 · 40 answers · asked by Alex 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm can't be a man...
2007-03-28 16:22:41 · update #1
I'm scared
2007-03-28 16:27:41 · update #2
I'm lookin at your photo
I'm thinking FEMALE
2007-03-28 16:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know, the first thing is for her to take a pregnancy test. Go to your local Planned Parenthood for a blood test, since they're more accurate. Offer to pay for an abortion if that's what you both think is the right thing to do. If not, be prepared to give up a chunk of your paycheck for the next twenty years. Insist on a DNA test if she has the baby and doesn't give it up for adoption. But past that, there's not much you can do. You're trapped. Sorry. You don't have to be part of the kid's life if you don't want to be, but make sure it's a clean break so she's free to find someone else.
2007-03-28 17:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by Rose D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look like a woman to me so this quesion is just BS if that's true. If not....
Support her through the pregnancy and pay child support. Do not try and talk her into anything that would be easier for you (abortion). Take responsibility. Pregnancy is a risk of sex. You knew this. Now you face the music. Sorry to sound so harsh, but some things in life are pretty straightforward. A baby is an incredible, exhausting, emotional rollercoaster of an experience - but not one that any parent I know of would say they regretted. I would walk through hell and back for my kids. Do the right thing. I'm not saying you have to get married, but you have to stand up and be a man.
2007-03-28 16:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by pookiemct07 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't wuss out and run away. The first thing you should do is get her checked to see if she really is. Then you promise yourself to never have unprotected sex again, unless you're AIMING for a child.
Raise the kid. No child deserves to grow up without a father. The kid'll be picked on for being different, people will give the girl a hard time for being a single mother, making fun of her 'bout "the man that idiot woman was stupid enough to have sex with", AND the parents will kill you if you leave.
Granted, you'll get killed anyways, but might as well take it.
2007-03-28 16:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by literalcookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude seriously you gotta deal with this... its a big step i know i was that gilr who got preggers but the guy who just ran and it hurt so much... im not gonna say be a man im gonna say if your responsible to have sex you need to do whats right... think of it this way...
you skip out on her leave it and forget... 15 years later your happy in a relationship starting your own family and you get a knock on the door, its your daughted 15 years old and wondering why her dad bailed
i never met my dad he did that to my mum... i cant find him and it hurts that he didnt want to know me... this dont just affect you it affects her and both families and think of what this kid will go thru if your not there
im not saying you have to be together but atleast be there for the kid.
my email address is on here if you need to talk more
2007-03-28 16:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find out first have her take a pregnancy test-go to local planned parenthood.
If you did get her pregnant you can both discuss whether or not you are keeping the child.
If you are happy that you got her pregnant-then congrats. Otherwise, I hope it works out in the best interest for the two of you.
2007-03-28 16:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a paternity test. If you can. Now days alot of things is up to the woman... except paying child support.
2007-03-28 16:22:56 · answer #7 · answered by geno1581 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a father to her (and your) child. If you chose to have sex with her, then you must have also chosen to be a real man with responsibilities to your family ... Right? Marry her and do your best to provide for your family.
2007-03-28 16:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by Down With Crack Whores And Pimps 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that takes care of your " born female but never told what sex you are" question. You are male and now you are going to be a father, show some cojones and take care of your kid, there are enough deadbeats out there avoiding responisbility for their kids. don't be one.
2007-03-28 16:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become a Shaolin monk.
2007-03-28 16:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by laffryot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a responsibilities and be a good dad. if you leave her, you never know what will happen to you after the child born and grow older. you will be the person he/she hate the most...
2007-03-28 16:22:16 · answer #11 · answered by Tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋