threaten divorce if you don't do what he wants?
He doesn't want me spending time with an ex-boyfriend who honestly is just a friend.For the full story look at my other questions...
2007-03-28 15:50:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh man. If I was your husband, I wouldn't want you hanging with your ex either. In fact, you should not be doing that!!! He can't read your mind honey...to him its akin to cheating. I think he is justified. Why don't you hang with your husband???!!! You married him! Sounds to me like your marriage is heading down the tubes...and I don't blame your husband.
2007-03-28 15:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what he is asking me to do. If he asked me to commit a crime no i wouldn't stay but asking you not to sleep over a another mans house is within reason. You and this other man blew it and if either you or this other man had ANY respect for your marriage you would do as your hubby asks and see the man at your house. Why is it that you have a problem seeing him in your home instead of alone at his house? If you don't try to compromise you are just asking for divorce you and your hubby need some serious counseling. I think you keep asking about this because you want someone to justify your behavior so you can divorce with out a care for your hubby's feelings. It is just as easy to watch movies on your couch as the other mans. If you aren't doing any thing you are ashamed of what is the problem of doing it where your hubby is.
2007-03-28 16:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by bubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the question is more like..
Why on earth would a man stay married to a woman who has such little respect for him, and the vows she took??
2007-03-29 01:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't give him reasons not to trust me in the first place. Keeping in contact with an ex b/f would do just that.
2007-03-28 16:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want you spending time with your Ex but I'd just tell you and hope you respected my feelings enough to not do it.
His threats are FEAR. He's afraid of losing you cause he wants you so much so he makes idle threats to keep you by his side.
He needs counseling cause he is insecure. Or maybe you should show him how much you love him and think he IS worthwhile.
2007-03-28 15:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jim_atthedrive-in 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how many times you re-post this question you are not going to get support for your bad behavior. Don't you get it? Nobody in the world of Yahoo thinks what you are doing is right.
2007-03-29 02:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by IveBeenThere 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't stay with anyone who gave me ultimatums, but I wouldn't be spending time with ex-boyfriends either.
2007-03-28 15:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by Curry 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think I would...but then I probably wouldn't have married him in the first place if he'd exhibited such behavior prior to exchanging vows.
He's not relationship material.
2007-03-28 15:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU GOT TO BE KIDDING!!!!!!! thats like tourture to a guy! i mean for real what is your deal? are you trying to break his will? you are married, wich by far surpasses hanging out with ex boyfriends. hang out with your husband instead. this sounds like you like attention of the wrong kind.
2007-03-28 15:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by johnofthehills 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋