Hes a great guy and we have been in a relationship for a while. Lately, hes shown some above-average interest in what I wear to the office each day, especially my pantyhose. He has given me some pretty strong hints that he would like to try them out to experience what it would feel like to wear them. I think I would be ok with it and that it might be good for him to give it a try so he knows what I have to go through each day, but I havent told him that yet. Instead, I told him I would think about it. Can any women out there offer me some advice on this?
2007-03-28 15:42:27 · 14 answers · asked by debbiebarns43 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It sounds like a fetish. You are going to have to decide whether you will be comfortable with this in your relationship. On one hand, I would ask him directly if it is a fetish because it is probably more than just wanting to know what you are going through. Since he has already been open about it, he might as well explain it to you since there is probably more to this odd request.
On the other hand, I think it is a good sign that he trusts you enough to express these thoughts - he probably feels you are not a judgmental person and will accept him for all of his idiosyncrasies. Honesty is one of the most important qualities in a relationship and something like this isn't easy to be open about. We all have things about ourselves that we don't like to tell others about, so don't let the naysayers bring you down with their "weird" comments.
2007-03-28 16:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say no he most likely will find a time when you are not around and wear them anyway. He may have already.
Saying it is ok probably will let any other ideas come out and help you understand just what and how he is.
I will bet he will give up the idea of wearing panri hose in a very short time. If not then you do have something to be aware of.
Buy him a couple of panythose and have him dodel them for you. No better time to truly find out just who yu are living with.
2007-03-28 22:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I am not a woman, but if he wants to wear your pantyhose, its not because he wants to know what you go through each day. He just wants to wear them, because, well, he's a little bit of a freak.
Tell him he has to shave his legs first, and I'll bet he goes for it. He probably has alot of weird fetishes and doesn't kow how to say it to you.
2007-03-28 22:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by Zaphod1130 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, okay, I'm not a woman, but I know what is going on here. He is a transvestite. Look it up in the library, and if you don't have a problem with this little peccadillo of his, enjoy!
2007-03-28 22:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by DAKal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a different size to wear for the day and have a good day at work, lol
2007-03-28 22:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by jellybeanmelbourne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's creepy that he wants to wear your pantyhose......but sure I guess so, but that whould turn me off.
2007-03-28 22:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by Rocker Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be wondering why he wants to try women's clothing!!! Does he like to up like a female? If you ask me, it's just plain weird.
2007-03-28 22:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by Zefina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
e-gad does he shave his legs!...if not...thats gonna suck after a couple hours what with all those leg hairs all bent in the wrong direction...i cant stand long socks after awhile!
2007-03-28 22:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he starts on one thing, then it will be more, so prepare yourself for a crossdresser....(he's not gay, just likes womens clothes) fi you can deal with it...go for it...if not..then you have to make a choice to leave or stay..
2007-03-28 22:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by Chrys 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sounds a little weird, but if your ok with it then let him...maybe he's just really curious and nothing more.
2007-03-28 22:47:25 · answer #10 · answered by mama of 4+extras? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋