Hes a great guy and we have been in a relationship for a while. Lately, hes shown some above-average interest in what I wear to the office each day, especially my pantyhose. He has given me some pretty strong hints that he would like to try them out to experience what it would feel like to wear them. I think I would be ok with it and that it might be good for him to give it a try so he knows what I have to go through each day, but I havent told him that yet. Instead, I told him I would think about it. Can any women out there offer me some advice on this?
2007-03-28 15:40:37 · 11 answers · asked by debbiebarns43 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he's asking you if he can wear your pantyhose he has probably already found them to be quite comfortable and wants your approval. I could be wrong but most men will not be comfortable asking their girlfriend something like that. He most likely has been interested in them for a long time and has tried them on when you were gone. Now he wants to know how you will repond. Ask him about it.
I would find it hard to believe that he feels so comfortable with you that he feels giving you a secret like that ( that he put on your pantyhose) is no big deal. On the other hand maybe he just wants to ruin the relationship, or at least see how you will respond to weird requests. If I were you I'd realize that no guy really wants to feel what it's like to be a woman, it's the fact that what you women do everyday; what you wear, what you feel, and what you think are so mysterious to us that keeps us running after you.
If you have a man that is interested in physically feeling what you feel when you put on feminine clothes that is an indication of something sexual not something caring. If he was just interested in how things made you feel I would say he must care for you deeply but since he's interested in how things you do make him feel physically I say be carefull, there must be more to this than what you can easily interpret.
Even though I'm not a woman I hope my thoughts help you.
2007-03-28 16:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by scotthomas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EWWWWwwwww!
I know that men wearing women's clothes and still being straight is not unheard of.....but I have never understood this phenomenon. I discovered that I know a cross dresser--he is 65ish, wealthy, a very conservative Baptist Republican cigar chomping Texan......who has been known to put on a dress, makeup, wigs and pearls. Alas his secret was outted in a very public way and he and his family were humiliated. And he is a totally great guy.
And none of us who saw the picutres (they were on local , state and even natl media because of his high public profile) will ever get over the shock.
So just keep that in mind when you are wondering if this is a cool thing.....
2007-03-28 22:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are thousands, maybe millions, of guys who like to wear feminine things, slips, panties, bras...the whole nine yards! It is actually a 'turn on' for them. They are not gay, but do have their 'strange' ways. The women who accept this, in good humor, can stay happily married, have children, a great sex life, etc. Some women get angry and refuse to accept it! When they go out, the hubby will slip on their underwear, anyway. Look it up on the Internet...I forget what it's called. Type something like, 'My husband likes to wear my clothes..." You'll be amazed.
2007-03-28 22:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by Eve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he just joking about it or does he want to run around in them.. Let him put them on.. its not going to take him long to figure out they are a pain in the rear to wear... and then ask him if he thinks men made them darn things too... good luck... and go out and buy him the control fit ones too, they would for sure turn him off of pantie hose
2007-03-28 22:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let your man wear the panty hose but if he enjoys them then I would worry, my BF wore my bra once just to see if it was any fun lol. He didnt think it was too funny when I flicked him!! Hope this helps!
2007-03-28 22:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by chunkysmom3502 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh, what kind of thinking is that? the first thing that comes to my mind he is a "gay', coz no one dare to wear like that except a gay..have you ever think he is a weird guy or gay? he might be envy the way you dress and you didn't noticed that. lol. this things makes me scary. continue observe him and then decide after if he is truly a man for you.good luck
2007-03-28 22:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by taurust_girl27 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess you have not liked any of the other answers to this question you have already gotten.....so I guess you will have to work this one out any way you feel is best.
2007-03-28 23:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes sick in the head! Or related to Burt Reynolds
2007-03-28 22:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably just has a fetish.
2007-03-28 22:47:57 · answer #9 · answered by wisdom_women 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a guy. i think ur bf got some mental problems.
2007-03-28 22:44:25 · answer #10 · answered by Sagar 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋