I just posted about problems with my wife and you people took me wrong.
1st. I am looking for WORK!! I haven't found the right job yet. 4 years is not a lot of time to find the perfect job. I will NOT work for slave wages or people who are jerks.
2. My mom was JUST helping my wife out by reaaraging the kitchen in the right way..SHE took it wrong..and so did some of you.
3. I like most people eat everyday at the same time...what's wrong with that.
4. I don't cook, I hate to cook. It's NOT my job to make the dinners etc. She agreed to do that BEFORE we got married
NOW.....you get it!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-28 15:39:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
this IS a joke, right? I read your last question, and assumed it was a joke, so are you mad that people took you seriously? It is hard to tell, it almost sounds like you do mean it, and there are some freaks out there who really do think like that, so I wouldn't be too upset, eh. People probably believed you.
2007-03-28 15:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't see you first post, however I don't believe it matters as to the answers.
If your wife is the main person who brings in the money that pays the living expenses, then you have taken on the roll of domestic engineer? Which means there has been a reversal of rolls. You now take on the responsibilities that use to belong to your wife.
It's okay for your mom to help out, but she should be teaching you how to organize since you are the one without outside employment.
As for dinner, there is nothing wrong with eating on a schedule. It's just too bad that you don't like to cook. Often times the best meals are ones we make ourselves.
In our household, the person who doesn't cook does the cleaning up. I would imagine that since you don't cook, you do the cleaning up.
Have you considered going to college or back to college to earn a degree or gain training in another field that might interest you more than what you were doing prior to not working?
You might qualify for worker retraining in your state, it might be worth checking out.
2007-03-28 23:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by T esira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a cross between an unemployed Archie Bunker and a Mommy's boy.
Your wife sounds like a saint!
Your wife may have agreed to your "terms" about dinner on the table at a set time, but I'll bet she also thought that you would be out there earning a living....doing the "Manly" thing.
Sorry, but 4 years unemployed is totally unacceptable to any self-respecting wife.
I can't believe what I'm reading here!!!
2007-03-29 01:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mexico4me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did not read any of your questions before but I can tell you this just from what little bit you have posted on this question. If you wife is working and you have been sitting on your lazy A** for 4 years, shes a Fool for putting up with it and needs to kick your A** to the Curb. A Man that is sooo dang lazy he cannot support his family is a BUM! Now you get it!!
2007-03-28 22:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't.
4 years and haven't been able to find the perfect job? Welcome to the real world.
You hate to cook. Awwww!
Get off that ego trip.
2007-03-28 23:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by TedEx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Four years is a long time to find a job- I don't care who you think you are.
2007-03-28 22:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you got an perfect wife, and u make all the guy shame, do you mind to give me your wife contact and i going to save her from the hell. after she divorce with you i will make her live happily ever after.. i promise.
2007-03-28 23:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by kimburger.ws 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-28 22:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by lover 23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋