my fiance just doesnt seem to ever miss me as much as i miss him...what can i do, how do i stop showing i am so attatched
2007-03-28 15:28:31 · 11 answers · asked by Alyssa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You seem a bit insecure - start by ending the game of trying to make him miss you more than you miss him. Sounds childish to me.
2007-03-28 15:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Curry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by ending the nagging!! Not really! Listen, men are different than women. Its in your nature to be affectionate and its in our nature to love golf. If you want to balance things out just don't appear so needy all the time. Also, you could start hanging out with your friends more and see if this starts to concern him. If it doesn't then I would seriously consider whether or not you should marry him!!!
2007-03-28 22:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go missing for a while.Switch off your handphone and tell your office not to pass any calls to you.End of the day is it worthwhile making him miss you?
2007-03-28 22:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go far enough away that you will be incommunicado for an extended period of time. When you go back to him, see what efforts, if any, he made to find out where you went. If he made none, drop him, he's only using you without any real feelings for you and no intention of making a commitment.
2007-03-28 22:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by The Parthian 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't know that for sure, but if you really think so, then you need to stop making him the "whole pie".
He is just a "slice" in your life.
2007-03-28 23:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by ♫ Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid him. Play a little hard to get. Only talk to him a few nights per week. Be busy. You can do it!
2007-03-28 22:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's your fiance, you should be attached...men are weird that way, they just don't show affection.... ask him if he missed you & tell him how you feel...you don't want to marry someone you can't connect with...connect NOW!!!
2007-03-28 22:34:01 · answer #7 · answered by mama of 4+extras? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get used to it
2007-03-28 22:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't MAKE him do anything.......if you are suffocating him, stop! if you just miss him, that's nice...
2007-03-28 22:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex with him 4 a week than u'll get his mind
2007-03-28 22:33:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋