We've been friends for 6 loong years now. We tell everything to each other.
Today, i just found she she has a boyfriend, they've been going out for a month and a half now.
Im supriesd she didnt tell me.
She told two other people from church tho and shes not that good friends with them
I know people need their privacy and personal space but this was the thing you tell your friends and i feel like a third wheel.
I met him today too and he seems really fake.
Im confused..are we drifting apart?
2007-03-28 15:26:20 · 13 answers · asked by Soccer is my Savior 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ha! Okay..im not the type to be jealous of that sort of thing.
I dont even date yet. I chose not to date yet
2007-03-28 15:32:59 · update #1
tell her how you feel. most likely she thought she did tell you. but if not don't think much of it congradulate her on her boyfriend and try to SLOWLY work it in that you think he is fake. you may end up saving her time with this guy.
2007-03-28 15:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by limegreen1@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right that was weird of her not to tell you but hey what's done is done all you can decide if you can live with that and forgive her or if that was too much of betrayal. Personally I say continue to be supportive and her friend but heed the red flags... keeping thins from you and a fake boyfriend.... Prepare yourself for her drifting some more and if her friendship means anything to you then you will be there long after he's gone and if your friendship indeed does not withstand the test of time... then take your good memories and move on. She served as your friend for the season. But as my final advise if this girl goes to church with you keep it cool nothing worse than driving the whole church through drama, know what I mean.
2007-03-28 15:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably wants some space. Sometimes best friends end up too close and know too much of each other. Your friend maybe just scared that you'd get in the way somehow or that you might get jealous that a third party is in the picture.
2007-03-28 15:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by I<3Pink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not drifting apart. You can't actually know everything about someone because i don't really think it's possible. There are some things people keep to themselves. Maybe she wouldn't know how you'd react. So leave it at that. Now you know she does have a boyfriend.
2007-03-28 15:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by heavydeezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it wasn't a big deal to her, she had no reason to mention it. maybe she did have a reason, don't worry about it, just ask her why if you really are that good of friends the reason can't be too horrible. Maybe you don't have a boyfriend and she felt bad mentioning it to you, or maybe like you said he seems fake and she realizes that maybe she's embarassed of him or maybe they aren't serious and they are just fooling around.
2007-03-28 15:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably just wanted to keep it a secret. dont worry im sure she still likes you and still wants to be friends with you. maybe she just wanted to keep it private, how did you find out she has a boyfriend??
2007-03-28 15:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by aminallover29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she was sacred and thought you would be judgemental just reassure her that know matter what you will support her, don't get angry she will just be the same way tell her you understand the pressure
((good luck))
2007-03-28 15:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by andysmith917 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she knew what your opinion would be of him >>"he seems really fake"<< and didn't want to hear it.
2007-03-28 15:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by Smiles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this mite happen. boyfriends take up a lot of time. just be there for her.
2007-03-28 15:33:20 · answer #9 · answered by tweed801 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just thought you wouldnt like him or understand. I would just ask her, why she didn't tell you.
2007-03-28 15:32:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋