2007-03-28 15:13:29 · 7 answers · asked by Chris K 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Talk to your local pastor.
He can be very nice and helpful. Please do not act on it until you talk to him first.
2007-03-28 15:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by smoothjazzkeyboards 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Human sexuality is the basis for what can make us emotionally happy. That is because when we have 'bonded' with another human being, that sense of being 'connected' saves us from the feelings of lonliness and isolation that are otherwise our dominant mode of thought.
In other words, who you are attracted to is the best indicator of who is capable of making you feel happy and 'content'. Trying not to be 'gay' would have the same affect on you as my trying not to be het; sure I could 'be' with a man in a relationship but it wouldn't make me as happy as being with a woman (preferably brunette or auburn-hair colored). No man in the world could ever make me as happy as that brunette, and if a person is gay, no woman in the world could make them as happy as the 'man' they dream about.
Be careful about trying to live according to someone else's idea of happiness.
2007-03-28 15:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by Khnopff71 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some professional help to get those nasty thoughts out of your head before you make a mistake that could ruin your life forever Best wishes Gorbalizer
2007-03-28 15:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by gorbalizer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to someone neutral, like a counselor to sort out your own thoughts.
Good luck
2007-03-28 15:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by Croa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait until you find out for sure before deciding to undo it! i doubt you can change your sexuality if you knew what you were
2007-03-28 15:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by Ash4ElishaCuthbert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight it is.....
or hetero.
i search a girl friend
2007-03-28 15:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by Henry W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want to be, dont be...be strong and do what you want....
2007-03-28 15:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by jstrmbill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋