Hi Tina,
Hmm, woman in shape or not. I really don't think it matters what the guy thnks to be honest. It's how you feel about yourself and what you think you look like. Don't ever let some guy tell you, "Oh baby you could loose some weight" or "You really should think about putting on a couple pounds cause you are looking way to skinny.
I have lady friends whom are both. I enjoy being around them all. I find them all equally attractive, not because of their shape or weight, but because of who they are inside. It's not the outside that is the most important part. It's what's on the inside that counts. I have a friend whom is absolutely georgous, knock down dead beautiful. She was actually runner up to Miss. California a couple years back. Great figure, beautiful face and hair, but once you got to know her, she really was an ugly person. Which eventually drove us to not being as close as we use to be.
So my opinion while beauty is always nice to look at, and I will look, it is not always the best thing to have.
Hugs, Selvaggio
2007-03-29 03:59:31
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answered by Selvaggio 3
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Umm ...well, since I don't like women like that, I'll answer the question as a guy's preference concerning other guys. And yes, I def. have to say that shape DOES matter with me. I'd like to say that I'm NOT shallow, but at the same time, maybe I am, just a lil bit. I mean, theres a difference in being pleasantly plump and sloppily fat. I have nothing against being with a guy with extra baggage, but he's got to wear it well. It can't be falling all over the place, and he's got to wear clothes that flatter his weight. But all in all, I'd prefer to have a well-built man in shape. I could be nice and say it doesn't matter, but in all honesty, it matters to all of us, even if only a little bit. Loves,
~!*Mr. Izzy Fabulous: Diva In Training*!~
2007-03-29 06:26:57
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm IN shape!..........round is a shape.
Just as some people are attracted to the same gender, some people are attracted to large women. There's even boards and clubs - for BBW (big, beautiful women).
If someone can't get past the size of my waist, they will never get the opportunity to get anywhere. My charm (snickers) and wit combined with my intelligence and ability to love is more than enough in my opinion.
You may be surprised at how many men try to pick up large women - as long as their buddies are not around.
2007-03-28 15:14:01
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answered by E_Tard 6
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*sighs* the horrible shallowness of males never ceases to amaze me. I'm not skinny, and I'll never be skinny. I'm a very tall and big boned girl and I have a big chest. If I was tiny I'd look like an upside down vase or something. My fiance is fine with the way i look (I am not fat, just fluffeh ^_^) and although I am trying to lose some weight for health, he said that it didn't matter if I lost the weight or not. He's been with me 4 years, so he obviously likes the way I look or we wouldn't have such a great sex life.
2007-03-28 15:11:32
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answered by Anonymous
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most men dont want a large woman but some men might just like the girl for her personality
2007-03-28 15:08:12
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answered by petevasquez2010 1
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Yes, it matters to me.
I can't help the fact I like a trim, slender body... I just do.
2007-03-28 15:08:45
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answered by Anonymous
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It amazes me that you're possibly trying to model your behavior on us. If you posted here, why do you care what we think? Not some weird envy, yuk.
Model it on your own feelings. If not why bother?
Life is more than that.
2007-03-28 15:18:49
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answered by Wonka 5
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i like my woman to be not obese or overweight. if there is a LITTLE extra fat okay. its cool, as long as it looks good. esp. on the butt and thighs, but a little on the tummy can be sexy too (gives you somthing to hold on to!!). not that i am disregarding my skinny women, you guys are sexy too. i just don't like a six-pack or muscles on a woman. women are supposed to be soft, tender
2007-03-28 15:13:19
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answered by Kenneth M 3
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im in shap so,yes, to me it matters but not all guys feel the same
2007-03-28 15:10:12
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't want to be walking down the street with my lady and hear "Thats a huge bit*h".
2007-03-28 15:09:14
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answered by Tyrone Biggums 4
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