My best best best friend recently became suicidal, and her other best bud almost killed herself last night. I cry if I think of either/or gone!!
I'm uber worried about my guy friend whos dating one of the girls and is also really tight with my best bud. If one kills herself I KNOW the other will follow. Neither of us can lose a friend, and he is in LOVE with one of them 4 christ sakes!
HELP!?!?!?!
2007-03-28 14:57:50 · 5 answers · asked by Cloudyheartgurl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i can't save their lives its so hard my bff counts on me for EVERY BIT OF HER STRENGTH!!!!
2007-03-28 15:04:21 · update #1
i can't save their lives its so hard my bff counts on me for EVERY BIT OF HER STRENGTH!!!! I cant take that responsibility if she does it ill be so pised at myself!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-28 15:04:52 · update #2
Nicole D u just made me feel 20000000 times worse I can't just save their lives its not in my power!!!
2007-03-28 15:07:54 · update #3
I think that they're very depressed that's why they want to kill themselves, it's very hard on your part. Talk to them, inlclude your guy friend so you could get to the bottom of things if it's still not enough then it's time for you to get an outside help, a counselor maybe before it'll be too late for all of you. Don't let then see you annoyed, it might worsen the situation and would make them feel worthless. Be a best friend. I know you know what to do and the important thing is pray! God is with you all the time. =)
2007-03-28 15:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by gab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nicole had it absolutely right. If you really care about these girls, you will tell a trsuted adult about them and GET THEM THE HELP THEY NEED! if you truly care about them, then you will FIND a way to help them, not just stand around saying "i can't save them."
you need to DO something. no matter what you think, telling someone WILL help! and you'll end up saving someone's life.
2007-03-28 22:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by LoveisLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there- I saved my friend's life pretty much. I got too involved and her mom won't let us talk, but we talk in school sometimes. She's changed and she's better. Talk to a counselor no matter what happens because IT WILL HELP. Have the counselor talk to them both and have your name anonymous with them. It you're a real friend you would do that. Good luck.
2007-03-28 22:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to be there with them and try to understand what's happening with them. But don't try and tell them what to do, they may take it the wrong way. Honestly be there for them and tell them how you feel and that you want them to be here with you.
2007-03-28 22:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by meximari420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...
Crazy!! They gotta chiil suicidal uncool..... Try to show them what the world offers and maybe they will become happier...
Or you could just beat them up =) it works all the time.
2007-03-28 22:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by S.A.T.H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋