When I went to Guatemala my (souppoes to be) Best Friend started to be really good friend with another girl in our band class, and now she will not talk to me. I got a myspace and she got all mad at me because of it. I tried asking her why she wasen't talking to me but she just said "go away i'm not in the mood". The worst part is that I don't know why she insen't talking to me. None of the girls are talking to me. Please give me some advice! I a really upset!
2007-03-28 14:57:05 · 7 answers · asked by Ember! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes BFF don't last forever..
2007-03-28 15:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's fallen out with you for no good reason! Try asking her why again, or perhaps text her or send her an email rather than having an 'actual' conversation.. Tell her you don't understand why she's mad at you, and that you don't want to lose her as a friend etc. You've given her two choices then; 1. She can talk to you properly and sort out whatever is wrong or 2. She can stay sulking, in which case you should try and make new friends, start hanging around with different people etc. She'll probably soon come to her senses! If not, she's not worth the hassle, and you should find new friends that'll treat you properly. Also, don't be upset about the other girls not talking to you, it's just one of those things that happens when friends (especially girls) fall out, everyone likes to get involved! It sounds like she's just thrown her dummy out the pram over something, and doesn't want to lose face & admit it.. Good luck! :) x
2007-03-28 15:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relational bullying at its finest. Your supposed to be best friend felt abandoned and jealous because you were off having a good time in Guatemala while she was stuck at home. Now she is relishing the idea of punishing you.
If this girl's friendship is really important to you, pull her aside and speak to her alone. Say something like, "Things have been really funny between the two of us since I got back from my trip. I value our friendship but if this is how you're going to act every time something good happens to me I won't be able to continue."
Hear her out if she feels like talking but don't push. And don't take it personally if she doesn't respond. You're better off without her if she acts like that.
2007-03-28 15:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by e_d_ellis2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may possibly be a rumor going around about you, maybe one about you and the guy she likes...
2007-03-28 15:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are going to be dumb like that they arent worth the trouble.
2007-03-28 15:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by A P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to work it out with her, you guys are BFF right?
2007-03-28 15:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her jealous
2007-03-28 15:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by crayon43 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋