ok... i kno that im cute but i wouldnt classify my self as hot or sexy and stuff..i guess it because im skinny but to the point whre i have alittle something something.. i start to notice that im always looking in the mirror not because im think im all that but to make sure im looking decent for school... i look at girls and im like dang there cute or she pretty but i dont see myself like that ..At home im think im cute and i have highself esteem but when i go to school its just drops down....i dont know why... any advice or is this all in my head
2007-03-28 14:50:41 · 4 answers · asked by unique_and_Petite 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
i think everyone looks at themselves to see if everything looks alright.
you might be feeling a little down at school because it's filled with different girls as opposed to when you're at home. there aren't like 100 girls surrounding you.
it's natural to feel this way, i used to do that too... it will pass.
once you learn to accept what you look like, you learn to love what you have!
all i can say is, all of those other girls that you are putting on a higher level than yourself, are probably doing the same with you!
2007-03-28 15:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you sound exactly like me. I do that too. I think you just have to get into that vibe you have at home no matter where you go. See your relection, strike a pose, say "damn im cute" and go about your day not worrying about your looks as much. if you know in the back of your mind you look good, confidence comes a lot easier.
2007-03-28 22:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is definitely insecurity, and you obviously only feel it around other kids. It is perfectly normal for middle and high school kids. Just make sure that you keep it in check. If you start to find yourself obsessing over whether or not you look okay, than you should probably either go to your school's guidance counselour, find a help line, or seek professional advice and assistance
2007-03-28 21:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by yellowisthebestcolorever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's why: at home you're just seeing yourself and you think you look great. Then you go to school, compare yourself to others, and begin to feel worse about yourself. Don't compare yourself to anyone else. For every girl you think is really pretty there is another one that thinks otherwise. Others could be admiring you and you don't even know it! Just carry yourself with confidence and try not to worry about what others look like.
2007-03-28 22:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋