My hubby and I have been married for a good 5 years, And, before our engagement we talked about having kids, I said I didn't wants biological children, and- possibly ,.. not even adopted children.
He and I where on the same page about traveling and being free, but it seems his biological clock is ticking and NOW he has decided that children are important to him, So- I listed to everythhing he had to say, and I said My piece too-
I told him, That perhaps in a few years, after I've done a bit more with my life, Adoption MAY be possible ( honestly, I don't have a maternal bone in my body and I really don't care if I ever have a littler person that looks like me.)
I know I would be a good parent, but it's just not appealing.
We both talked for a good long time, and he still reiterates that he wants a biological child. ( Aside from my fear of anything medicinal. every female in my family has had complications. my sister included..)
So- how do we work this out?
2007-03-28
14:48:24
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