Okay, I get bashed for believing girls should behave like girls and not like boys and told I was messed up. I want to know if there is a double standard here for girls and boys. I think boys should be boys and girls should be girls.
2007-03-28 14:47:56 · 41 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
sure why not
they alread do
u r a we tod
2007-03-28 14:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by booyah™ 7 · 4⤊ 4⤋
Ya Know, I Used to Jokingly Say
I Don't Care if other Guys Wanna be Gay
Cause that's just more Girls for me
Personally I Don't Care
But God Does
& He says it's an abomination to him
Hey I Don't Make the rules
He Does comand me however to warn ppl in sin
that what there doing is sin
And because I Care about all ppl
& Don't want anyone to go to Hell
I'll Just say Like here
Thats What He Says
If They're Never Gonna recieve Jesus anyway
Let em Live it Up, & Not Just Homo's
But Heteral Sexuals Too,
Sex Outside of Marriage is just as bad a sin
I Must admit I Wouldn't want My son
Dressing & acting Like a Girl
I'd still Love Him, But I Think it Looks Gay
The Bible did predict that in the Last days
It would be like the City Sodum & Gamoura
Lots of sexual imorality, homosexuality running Rapid
Sex Outside of Marriage Became acceptable 40ish yrs ago
& The Parents at the time Thought That was Taboo
Well Now its Taken a step Further & Lesbianism
in this generation is Nothing, almost a Fad
So No Suprises Here,
God Said it & So it was gonna Happen Sooner or Later,
But Brace Yourselfs
The end is Near, Watch & Be Ready, Recieve Jesus
Repent & Be Converted That Times of refreshing
May Come from The Lord, Ya Don't wanna Be "Left Behind"
2007-03-28 16:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by forgivenbadboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question has an intrinsic flaw. What determines what is a tomboy? If a girl plays a sport but is otherwise feminine is she being a tomboy? If a girl wears pants does that make her a tomboy? If a girl has a short haircut is she a tomboy? Who determines?
The problem with defining a tomboy is that many of things that interest boys can be generalized to naturally include both sexes: sports, professions, math, cars, even clothes. These things are not exclusively masculine. In fact, there are few things that are exclusively masculine in today's society.
On the other hand if a guy wears jewelry and an earring does that make him girly? At one time that was exclusively in the female camp but our generation has made them generalized.
If a guy wears lipstick, pantyhose and a sun dress and 5" heels then we recognize this as being exclusively feminine. Perhaps in someday in the future society will consider them generalized, but not today.
2007-03-29 10:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if a guy wants to dress like a girl and act like one let him but if a boy or a girl has a sex change that just goes too far. That's all I have to say about this question since I went on a rant on the one about tom boys. :P
2007-03-28 14:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, u can be what u want, but as a warning, acting like a girl u will get ridiculed beyond comprehension. And yes, there are a double standard for girls and boys both has its positives and negatives. Like girls get the job more often cuz they're pretty. But they don't get paid a lot cuz their girl (the whole "glass celing" thing)
2007-03-28 14:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by VOL I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a double standard, and to be quite honest it annoys the heck out of me that a girl can wear pants, but a guy can never wear a dress/skirt without getting looked at weird.
Why is it that a girl can wear mens boxers, but if a guy wears panties hes like a drag queen or trans___?
I dont have those feelings to do those things, but It does annoy me that If I wanted to, I couldnt.
2007-03-30 03:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by sanguinehuman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little boys (like 1 and 2 year olds) do dress like girls and play "girl stuff". It's just part of having a mother, and interacting with other kids. So I guess it's okay.
2007-03-28 16:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Who says only boys can climb trees or play with cars? Also, who says boys can't be fashion conscious and play with dolls? I used to be a tom boy and I'm very female. I used to ride in horse shows and I love to drive Quads. We are all individuals who like different things, that's what the world is made of. How boring would it be if we all liked the same everything and dressed the same way and looked the same. How boring!
2007-03-28 15:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by Shrew 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that isnt the way that it really is. People do what they want girls are girls, boys are boys, boys are girls and girls are boys. Who cares they arent doing anything to physically harm you or anybody else. I believe that one should worry only about ones self not everybody around them since there is no harm being done.
2007-03-28 14:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by punkin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls can act however they want. I'm not gonna go and act like other peoples' standards of a girl. I hang out mainly with boys and with a couple of girls. I love sports and any boy that says that girls shouldn't play isn't right. I act more like a boy than a girl and it can be the oppisite. Boys can act like girls though that is rare. Just because we don't act like the other girls doesn't mean we aren't girls. Just because boys don't act like other boys doesn't mean they aren't boys.
2007-03-28 14:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by thistleclaw 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I agree personally because of the social acceptance of this fact however there are people who are going to disagree with you and say some ppl should be able to believe and act/live how they want whether it be gay or straight.
Live how you choose and if I don't accept it its really none of business to bestow my opinion on another if they didn;t ask. I just don't believe in the whole gay thing I don't want my kids thinking its okay because its not
2007-03-28 14:53:31 · answer #11 · answered by Ms. Mee 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋