i like having friends with benifits just for fun just cuz i dont always want a relationship
but i feel the need to not have the same friend with benifit for too long cuz i dont like feeling emotionaly attached
and i think im falling for this one dude but we're JUST friends with benifits i dont know what to do he says he like hanging with me (we're not always doing stuff sometimes we hang just as friends) and and that im really cool and have a good personality and that he thinks im hot but that he doesnt hang with me cuz of how i look like...
im confused i dont want to be emotionally attached thats exactly why i like friends with benifits
but he calls to hang out almost everyday and i dont like saying no cuz I WANT TO see him....
and plus he's amazing at what he does ;)
and he says i am too we always have so much fun
2007-03-28 14:47:02 · 8 answers · asked by hotloverxo328 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe that lifestyle has gotten old.
maybe you grew up. and that is not enough for you anymore.
friends with benifits is only good in theory.. it rarerly works because feelings always get involved.
never fail.
make a decision. do it or don't . only you can decide what you want or need
2007-03-28 14:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there. It's a sin, why are the best always the ones that dont want a commitment. Only you can decide what to do here. Someday you will get tired of it. When you do, try not to fall back into it, with someone else, especially if you give up the best. I do know what that is like. I just keep telling my self, he'll still be there if I decide I need him back. For me, I decided I wanted more. Like I said though, only you can decide that. Just be careful, cause you probably aren't the only one getting the benefits.
2007-03-28 15:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by ME!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl I'm gonna tell u from experience if hes a friend worth keeping let the benefits stay in the bank because those two don't really match, u can continue as is and after awhile start feeling salty because hes not perceiving u the way u want,or u can try and hope it works but whatever the case may be most likely u loose a good friend.
2007-03-28 14:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by shaniquwa m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First i think you need to stop with the f*** buddy stuff coz you never wanting to become emotionally attatched is just allow your friends to use you when ever they want. At the rate your going no ones ever gonna take you seriously relationshipwise and friendshipwise. These guys your screwing are just adverturely gonna move on, you need to stop what your doing and really figure out what you want.
see this guy you might be falling for do you just want to be his f**** buddy or do you want a more stable relationship.
2007-03-28 14:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by dare_ange1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this reminds me of an episode of Red Shoe Diaries. This woman is constantly paying this giggilo for various experiences. as the episode progresses, they start to fall for one another and eventually are married. OR perhaps that song Miss Independent It's possible you have feelings for him. besides, you did say he was "amazing" in the benifets department :) lol
2007-03-28 14:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by j-blueman07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to be more then friends with benefits nothing wrong with it at all.
2007-03-28 14:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.
2007-03-28 14:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is "benefits" ?
2007-03-28 14:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋